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[ DIWALI ]<br />

The Changing<br />

face of Diwali<br />

“Less emphasis on rituals, but more ostentatiousness. That’s the hallmark of the<br />

modern, affluent India. There are more lights, and electric ones.”<br />

[ By NITA JATAR KULKARNI ]<br />

When Mrs Sayantara<br />

Purandare went to<br />

perform pooja of a<br />

cow and calf on the day of Vasu-<br />

Baras (the first day of Diwali for<br />

Maharashtrians) she was surprised<br />

to see a lone cow standing under<br />

the tree bereft of calf. As the<br />

presence of the calf is equally<br />

important (to venerate the mother<br />

for sharing her milk with human<br />

children), Sayantara was upset, but<br />

saw that a lot of women were not<br />

too concerned. After all the man<br />

had a glib answer: “The cow is<br />

pregnant,” he told them, extending<br />

his hand shamelessly for the dakshina. This<br />

would have been unthinkable a few decades<br />

back…no tout would have dared to mess up<br />

with an age-old tradition. But this is the face<br />

of Diwali today. Rank commercialization,<br />

and conmen able to make a fast buck because<br />

people are less finicky about rituals.<br />

Less emphasis on rituals, but more<br />

ostentatiousness. That’s the hallmark of the<br />

modern, affluent India. There are more lights,<br />

and electric ones. And not just in homes, but<br />

in neighborhoods and shopping complexes<br />

as well. Fireworks have got louder and more<br />

organised. So has the music. There are Diwali<br />

dances, Diwali beauty queens and Diwali<br />

shows. Diwali cards and Diwali gift packs.<br />

Rangolis are not the pretty decorations that<br />

one slaved at in one’s own courtyard but are<br />

now the subject of neighborhood competitions.<br />

Sweets and savouries are bought not made,<br />

and the well to do often exchange expensive<br />

gifts even if tradition dictates that it’s sweets<br />

and savouries that need to be exchanged.<br />

Chocolates are in fact the new fashion and<br />

ghee laden sweets are getting the go-by. Maybe<br />

diseases like high blood pressure, cholesterol<br />

and diabetes are restraining factors!<br />

Other rituals like decorating houses with<br />

rangolis, taking the ritual oil baths and<br />

performing aukshans are becoming optional,<br />

particularly amongst the younger lot. As for<br />

spring-cleaning (used to start a good 15 days<br />

before Diwali) it has become a superficial<br />

exercise, if done at all. All this leaves people,<br />

particularly elders, with doubts about<br />

whether the spirit of Diwali is intact.<br />

What do we mean by the spirit of Diwali<br />

anyway? Diwali signifies the victory of Good<br />

over Evil (return of Rama from<br />

a 14 year exile for north <strong>Indian</strong>s<br />

and defeat of Narkasura by Lord<br />

Krishna in the south). In most<br />

parts of India Laxmi (the Goddess<br />

of Wealth) is worshipped. People<br />

purchase gold and remain at<br />

home to welcome Laxmi. It’s a big<br />

day for those in the northern and<br />

western parts of India and if one<br />

has to test the sanctity of Diwali,<br />

one needs to test it on this day.<br />

What one sees is heart-warming.<br />

The majority of people stay at<br />

home to celebrate Laxmi pooja<br />

as it is considered inauspicious to<br />

travel during this time or even<br />

leave the house. Fifty year old<br />

Sarita Poha doesn’t even party that day as the<br />

thought of locking up the house is anathema<br />

to her. “It’s not superstition,” she insists. “It’s<br />

religion, and I believe in it and so do my two<br />

grown-up daughters.”<br />

On the other days of Diwali, rituals are<br />

not adhered to as strictly. People may not go<br />

out and buy new utensils on Dhanteras but<br />

they do lights lamps and there is a festive<br />

atmosphere at home. People come and go<br />

and there are get-togethers. “The days are<br />

not unnoticed. I think faith is intact in spite<br />

of the dilution of ritualistic practices,” says<br />

Usha Vaidyanathan, a traditional Tamilian,<br />

and she doesn’t think that this change is a<br />

bad thing. “With the younger generation<br />

festivals are becoming less associated with<br />

religion and rituals and becoming more<br />

like social events and occasions for get-<br />

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<strong>THE</strong> INTERNATIONAL INDIAN

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