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a Chinese-speaking friend to help you<br />
check www.58.com to find ride share<br />
opportunities headed to your destination.<br />
It’s cheap and definitely unforgettable!<br />
If you’re concerned about safety,<br />
it would be best to meet the other party<br />
beforehand. I traveled with a lovely<br />
young couple that was simply looking to<br />
save money on fuel and we became quick<br />
friends during the journey.<br />
Spending some quality time<br />
with the family<br />
Once you’ve made it to your destination,<br />
drop your luggage and get ready<br />
to party! Well, perhaps not the type of<br />
party you’re thinking. The Chinese<br />
New Year is filled with age old<br />
traditions and time spent<br />
with family. For those celebrating<br />
with a Chinese<br />
family, you can expect<br />
a lot of food and<br />
incredible hospitality.<br />
Bear<br />
in mind, it<br />
is polite<br />
a n d<br />
often<br />
expected<br />
for family<br />
members<br />
and guests to<br />
arrive bearing<br />
gifts. Visit any supermarket<br />
this time<br />
of year and you’ll find<br />
a variety of gift boxes, nuts,<br />
dried fruits and chocolates, all of<br />
which are suitable for gift-giving.<br />
According to Chinese tradition, reds,<br />
oranges, and yellows are colors that create<br />
warmth and excitement. Thus, oranges<br />
are often given to arriving guests<br />
as a warm welcome.<br />
Although every family celebrates<br />
the festival a bit differently nowadays,<br />
there are a few traditions that seem<br />
fairly common throughout the country.<br />
Of course, the traditions run far deeper<br />
than my non-Chinese self is able to<br />
describe, but from my experience, the<br />
most important days are New Year’s<br />
Eve and the first few days of the New<br />
Year. Generally, families will gather<br />
for a tremendous feast on the eve of the<br />
Chinese New Year. Following the meal,<br />
the nation tunes in to watch the Chinese<br />
New Year’s Gala. Young people<br />
even enjoy ringing in the New Year at a<br />
bar or club, with “crowded” describing<br />
the environment lightly. Depending on<br />
where you are in the country, prepare<br />
yourself (have your cameras ready!) for<br />
the roar of fireworks when the clock<br />
strikes midnight. During the first few<br />
days of the New Year, families travel<br />
around to relatives’ homes to pay a New<br />
Year’s visit, drink tea, snack, and chat.<br />
During the evenings, some families<br />
gather for a game of mahjong. This,<br />
for me, means staring blank-faced at<br />
the table while being hypnotized by<br />
the melody of the rustling tiles. I really<br />
need to learn how to play.<br />
If you’re joining a family celebration,<br />
come ready to eat. Food is central<br />
to the holiday and meat is particularly<br />
abundant, symbolizing a precious reward<br />
for the hard work and struggle<br />
throughout the year. You’ll undoubtedly<br />
have the opportunity to try many<br />
types of food and parts of animals that<br />
you didn’t even know existed. The look<br />
on my face must have been priceless<br />
when an entire “messenger bird” aka<br />
pigeon was dropped into my bowl.<br />
How to handle such a situation? Pretend<br />
to enjoy it and then discreetly discard<br />
it when no one’s looking; no one<br />
will mind. A fish will often be served<br />
at family meals during the New Year,<br />
but not eaten. This is a reminder to<br />
always leave a little bit remaining. The<br />
pronunciation of the words “fish” and<br />
“surplus” are the same in Chinese (yú),<br />
thus giving rise to the importance of<br />
fish in both food and decoration during<br />
this time of year.<br />
Honestly speaking, I look forward<br />
to the Spring Festival each year.<br />
As much as I would like to hibernate<br />
in my apartment in front of my space<br />
heater watching Sex and the City reruns,<br />
it’s nice to get out and experience<br />
what China is really about. People<br />
work and anticipate the entire year for<br />
this moment. It means the world to<br />
them and as guests in their country<br />
we should grant it the same respect.<br />
Next time you are graciously invited<br />
to a Chinese New Year’s gathering,<br />
be honored, for they are opening their<br />
home and time-honored tradition to<br />
you. Turning down the opportunity<br />
to experience the spirit of the season<br />
would be downright sad. The holiday<br />
is long, the opportunity is rare, and<br />
you’ll have plenty of time to recuperate.<br />
Enjoy your Spring Festival!<br />
(Source: eChinacities.com)<br />
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