LORD, PLEAS E HE L P ME T O CHANG Eany tim e during th e chang e process : when w e begin t o <strong>change</strong> ,after we've trie d an d failed , or when w e need enduranc e fo r th elong, las t haul. An d it s desperation ca n shock , confuse , an dhumiliate ourselve s and thos e around us .Unfortunately, we don't alway s receive hel p from th e peo -ple who could <strong>to</strong>uc h u s most deeply .It's tempting t o shut dow n an d tur n inwar d fro m thi s rejec -tion, but it' s crucial tha t we do not . When w e cry for <strong>help</strong>, we'r enear a turning poin t tha t coul d eventuall y hea l us . I f we don' tkeep movin g forward , we could fal l deeper int o ou r destructiv ebehaviors.So when we'r e rejecte d b y those wh o won't listen , w e ca nre<strong>me</strong>mber tha t so<strong>me</strong>where—in a ho<strong>me</strong>, i n a church, i n a psychol -ogist's office—there are peopl e wh o wil l hear u s and respond .And w e need t o keep crying out unti l we find them .It takes courage: th e kin d tha t state s our need s without hys -terically slashing our wrists .We can find tha t courage i n God, who wants us <strong>to</strong> cry out t oHim, da y or night , and a s often a s we need <strong>to</strong> . H e neve r tire s o flistening t o us , of <strong>help</strong>ing us , of creating miracle s tha t hea l ou rhearts and <strong>change</strong> us .When other s rejec t us , the Lor d linger s on. Hi s Spirit wil lnever leav e or forsake us , until th e da y we <strong>me</strong>et Hi m face-<strong>to</strong>-fac ein heaven , cryin g wit h joy .EHPERSONAL CHECKPOIN T1. Ha s anyone rejecte d you r crie s for <strong>help</strong>? I f so, ho w did yo ufeel?2. Whe n you'r e rejected , what are you tempted t o do?David cries out t o God for <strong>help</strong> :GOD'S VIEWPOIN T.86
STUMBLING TOWAR D FREEDO MI cry out <strong>to</strong> the LORD;I pray <strong>to</strong> the LORD for <strong>me</strong>rcy.I pour out my problems <strong>to</strong> him;I tell him my troubles.When I am afraid,you, LORD, know the way out.In the path where I walk,a trap is hidden for <strong>me</strong>.Look around <strong>me</strong> and see.No one cares about <strong>me</strong>.I have no place of safety;no one cares if I live.LORD, I cry out <strong>to</strong> you.I say, "You are my protection.You are all I want in this life. "Listen <strong>to</strong> my cry,because I am <strong>help</strong>less.Save <strong>me</strong> from those who are chasing <strong>me</strong>,because they are <strong>to</strong>o strong for <strong>me</strong>.Free <strong>me</strong> from my prison,and then I will praise your na<strong>me</strong>.Then good people will surround <strong>me</strong>,because you have taken care of <strong>me</strong>.—Psalm 142YOUR RESPONS E1. Ho w can yo u lear n t o cry out t o God wit h your pain ?2. Ho w do you want Hi m t o respond ?87
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