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<strong>free</strong>dom from "love"<br />
That <strong>is</strong> what love sickness realy <strong>is</strong>: loss of identity.<br />
Suddenly, from one moment to the next, you don’t<br />
know who you are anymore without the other<br />
person. That’s why it feels so painful.<br />
Love sickness <strong>is</strong> a sign that you’ve lost a large part<br />
of <strong>your</strong> identity. Don’t try to repair <strong>your</strong> identity,<br />
but leave that space open so that true love can<br />
enter. It wil not enter from the outside, but from<br />
the inside. It’s already t<strong>here</strong>.<br />
How do I know that I’ve found true love?<br />
You can’t find it in a person. First you have to<br />
recognize it in <strong>your</strong>self. Then the love that <strong>is</strong> in you<br />
can recognize itself in another human being.<br />
Or you’l know it after the breakup. When hate<br />
ar<strong>is</strong>es, it was not true love. Because the opposite of<br />
true love <strong>is</strong> not hate. T<strong>here</strong> <strong>is</strong> no opposite.<br />
How can I love someone who stole from me, betrayed<br />
me, abused me, kiled my family?<br />
If you look at a person as if it were a tree, without<br />
labeling or judging it, you separate the story that<br />
you have about them and the behavior that they<br />
show to you in the form of their words or reactions,<br />
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