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<strong>free</strong>dom from "I am different."<br />
When people sense that they are acting out a false<br />
self-image, they try to be more authentic, and start<br />
to act out another self-image that they’re more<br />
identified with.<br />
They wil never reach a level of ful authenticity<br />
with any self-image. Only when they have<br />
completely d<strong>is</strong>identified with their self-images, wil<br />
they be truly authentic.<br />
When only the stories of people interact, it’s no<br />
wonder that most relationships are inauthentic,<br />
even between two people who have been maried<br />
for 30 years.<br />
Isn’t smal talk the quick way to connect with other<br />
people?<br />
When <strong>your</strong> story <strong>is</strong> active in <strong>your</strong> interaction with<br />
someone else, it’s likely to interact with the other<br />
person’s story, and the interaction appears shalow<br />
or "smal" to you.<br />
Once you interact without a story, the atention that<br />
you needed to protect <strong>your</strong> story becomes available<br />
to you.<br />
Then you can put that atention in h<strong>is</strong> or her eyes,<br />
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