The Gift of Introversion

just four months old. In other words, if you have an introverted nature, you’re likely to be
that way from birth and remain that way throughout your life.
Why we don’t want to: This speaks to a deeper truth about introverts. There are plenty
of introverts out there who wish they could be more outgoing, but this isn’t the same
thing as becoming an extrovert. Introverts, like everyone, can practice their social skills
and become more capable in social situations. But it won’t change the fact that those
interactions drain us.
But, if you’re hoping to become more social, there’s good news:
There is definitely such a thing as an outgoing or “extroverted” introvert…
…and introverts can learn social skills and get good at them with practice.
There are lots of charming introverts out there, from major stars like Lady Gaga, Audrey
Hepburn and Johnny Depp to many of the warm, friendly and charismatic introverts
we’ve met thanks to the Introvert, Dear community. For most of us, becoming
comfortable in social situations has simply been a matter of practice—even if it seemed
impossible once.
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