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The Gift of Introversion

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their "first nature", but can strategically advance projects that are important to them.<br />

Together, this presents an optimistic view <strong>of</strong> what extraversion is. Rather than being<br />

fixed and stable, individuals vary in their extraverted behaviors across different<br />

moments, and can choose to act extraverted to advance important personal projects or<br />

even increase their happiness, as mentioned above.<br />

Implications<br />

Acknowledging that introversion and extraversion are normal variants <strong>of</strong> behavior can<br />

help in self-acceptance and understanding <strong>of</strong> others. For example, an extravert can<br />

accept his/her introverted partner's need for space, while an introvert can acknowledge<br />

his/her extraverted partner's need for social interaction.<br />

Researchers have found a correlation between extraversion and self-reported<br />

happiness. That is, more extraverted people tend to report higher levels <strong>of</strong> happiness<br />

than introverts. Other research has shown that being instructed to act in an extraverted<br />

manner leads to increases in positive affect, even for people who are trait-level<br />

introverts.<br />

This does not mean that introverts are unhappy. Extraverts simply report experiencing<br />

more positive emotions, whereas introverts tend to be closer to neutral. This may be<br />

because extraversion is socially preferable in contemporary Western culture and thus<br />

introverts feel less desirable. In addition to the research on happiness, other studies<br />

have found that extraverts tend to report higher levels <strong>of</strong> self-esteem than<br />

introverts. Others suggest that such results reflect socio-cultural bias in the survey<br />

itself. Dr. David Meyers has claimed that happiness is a matter <strong>of</strong> possessing three<br />

traits: self-esteem, optimism, and extraversion. Meyers bases his conclusions on<br />

studies that report extraverts to be happier; these findings have been questioned in light<br />

<strong>of</strong> the fact that the "happiness" prompts given to the studies' subjects, such as "I like to<br />

be with others" and "I'm fun to be with," only measure happiness among<br />

extraverts. Also, according to Carl Jung, introverts acknowledge more readily their<br />

psychological needs and problems, whereas extraverts tend to be oblivious to them<br />

because they focus more on the outer world.<br />

Although extraversion is perceived as socially desirable in Western culture, it is not<br />

always an advantage. For example, extraverted youths are more likely to engage in<br />

antisocial or delinquent behavior. In line with this, emerging evidence suggest that the<br />

trait <strong>of</strong> extraversion may also be related to that <strong>of</strong> psychopathy. Conversely, while<br />

introversion is perceived as less socially desirable, it is strongly associated with positive<br />

traits such as intelligence and "giftedness." For many years, researchers have found<br />

that introverts tend to be more successful in academic environments, which extraverts<br />

may find boring.<br />

Research shows that behavioral immune system, the psychological processes that infer<br />

infection risk from perceptual cues and respond to these perceptual cues through the<br />

activation <strong>of</strong> aversive emotions, may influence gregariousness. Although extraversion is<br />

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