The Gift of Introversion

9. Permission To Not Explain Sometimes
There are times when they just have no words. They may be feeling something
strongly, but they can’t describe it. Or they need to be alone right now, but don’t
have the energy to provide a lengthy explanation. When an introvert says, “I don’t
want to talk about it,” or simply, “This is what I need,” let that suffice. After some
time to process, they will likely come back to you with more words.
10. Time And Space To Work Uninterrupted
It’s no secret that introverts do their best work alone. Unfortunately, our offices
and classrooms are not geared toward quiet reflection. As a result, you may find
introverts sneaking away to the abandoned corners of the office building. Or
coming early or staying late. Or begging to stay in the classroom — where it’s
quiet and empty — during recess. To all teachers, supervisors, and parents —
give introverts the quiet space they need to think. You may find that you get
higher quality work in return.
11. Their Tribe
Rarely the ones for chasing popularity, introverts usually have just a few close
friends — and they prefer it that way. However, note that the key word is “close.”
For introverts, friendship isn’t about just occupying the same space, doing the
same activity. Nor is it about trading gossip. It’s about finding a kindred spirit,
someone who will peek into the introvert’s inner world — and reveal theirs in
return.
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