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Out and About STYLE Magazine Issue 4 Vol. 2

Out and About STYLE Mag. was created out of the need to see more 'real people' in the media. As such, our content is completely celebrity-free. Instead, we focus on "real people living extraordinary lives" - People that can provide real inspiration. Our magazine is big on real stories and relatable topics.  - Marsha Fry, Editor-in-Chief.

Out and About STYLE Mag. was created out of the need to see more 'real people' in the media. As such, our content is completely celebrity-free. Instead, we focus on "real people living extraordinary lives" - People that can provide real inspiration. Our magazine is big on real stories and relatable topics. 

- Marsha Fry, Editor-in-Chief.

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For the Culture<br />

THE REINVENTED CHRONICLES WITH<br />

YVONNE C. MTENGWA<br />

5 Ways to Wrap<br />

your Mind Around<br />

the Unknown <strong>and</strong><br />

Keep from Panicking<br />

Sitting in a waiting room has never been easy.<br />

Waiting for any sort of confirmation on an issue can<br />

most definitely play its part in taking us out of our<br />

mental equilibrium. Whether you are waiting for the<br />

doctor to come back to you with test results or a<br />

notification on whether or not you got the job or<br />

if you passed the most difficult module towards a<br />

certification you are so desperately trying to attain;<br />

we can all agree that minutes, days, weeks <strong>and</strong><br />

even months of waiting for the news or some news<br />

can have you operating in rolling tides of angst.<br />

I’ve had several conversations over the past few<br />

weeks with friends <strong>and</strong> family doing their best to<br />

adjust to a new norm in the world we are living now.<br />

The headlines have a way of prophesying doom,<br />

while others are churning out the rudimentary “use<br />

this opportunity to build your br<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> build<br />

your best life” messaging. Even with this, most<br />

people are simply trying to figure out what their<br />

immediate needs are <strong>and</strong> how they will get those<br />

fulfilled. Many need rest. Others need to get a grip<br />

of their finances after being told their salaries are<br />

taking a hit for the next few weeks. I’m pretty sure<br />

most of us know someone who is being forced to<br />

accept the new reality of having to go back home<br />

unexpectedly or shut down their business. There is<br />

no time for ‘building the new me’ for them because<br />

in all the waiting for some semblance of normalcy<br />

to make its come back, the list of pressure points is<br />

growing. Stuff just hasn’t worked out as they would<br />

have liked, <strong>and</strong> the breaking point is nigh.<br />

If you find yourself in the category of people<br />

struggling to stay sane in light of current events,<br />

here’s my take on how you can keep from folding<br />

by processing that which lies ahead – known or<br />

unknown.<br />

1. GET TO EMERGENCY PLANNING IF<br />

YOU HAVEN’T ALREADY.<br />

We can all agree that nothing prepared us for the<br />

global p<strong>and</strong>emic <strong>and</strong> subsequent shutdowns the<br />

world over. Q2 2020 is here, <strong>and</strong> if there is any<br />

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