V18 N25
V18 N25 September 17, 2020
V18 N25
September 17, 2020
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The Answer Lady invites inquiries<br />
from gentle readers on all manner of<br />
relationship quandaries, matters of<br />
the heart and ethics. Sit back, enjoy<br />
a cup of coffee and contemplate the<br />
wisdom herein:<br />
Dear Answer Lady<br />
I am 19 years old and have worked very<br />
hard this summer. I want to take some of the<br />
money I made and get filler for my lips. They<br />
are too thin, and I don’t like them. My father<br />
thinks the idea is absurd and said I have to obey<br />
or get out — it’s not the first time he’s threatened<br />
that. I could move back in with my mother,<br />
who doesn’t care if get my lips done. What do<br />
you think? — Thin Lipped<br />
Dear Thin<br />
The Answer Lady’s eyes are rolling. So,<br />
your goal is to look like Goldie Hawn when<br />
you’re 30? You can’t think of anything else to<br />
spend your hard-earned money on? The Answer<br />
Lady does NOT think it is a good idea and<br />
neither should you. You are perfect JUST as you<br />
are and looking at yourself in the mirror and not<br />
The Answer Lady<br />
Wise answers to perplexing questions<br />
seeing that is the true flaw. We can assure you<br />
Mr. Right will not care about your “thin” lips<br />
but he might care that your priorities are a little<br />
skewed. The Answer Lady suggests thinking<br />
about it for another month. While you’re thinking,<br />
make a trip to Cape May Peanut Butter Co.<br />
and pick up a jar of vanilla peanut butter. Fix<br />
yourself a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and<br />
enjoy. Maybe that bit of effort will realign your<br />
self-image.<br />
Dear Answer Lady<br />
I am dating a very attractive woman who<br />
likes to wear provocative clothing. Nothing<br />
outrageous — a little cleavage and tight jeans.<br />
I love that guys turn and look, but she gets<br />
insulted if an older guy says something when<br />
she’s working as a hostess at a restaurant. I<br />
don’t want to tell her how to dress because I like<br />
it but do you think she should tone it down for<br />
work? Would that be an easy fix? — Confused<br />
Dear Confused<br />
Tough one. No matter what the attire, men<br />
should not — as the Victorians would say — take<br />
liberties. She has a certain look that both of you<br />
are happy with, so what to do? Perhaps the best<br />
way to handle the unwarranted attention, is to<br />
ignore it or deflect it, especially if their wives or<br />
girlfriends are with them. Include them in on<br />
the “conversation,” as in, “OH, your husband<br />
just said he likes my top. I bought mine at Lace<br />
Silhouettes. Tell them I sent you.” If she can<br />
keep an even temper and level the playing field<br />
by calling attention to their predatory behavior,<br />
she will be the victor in so many ways.<br />
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