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forniaSi da `aqti I~ arkanzasSi . orive SeTavazeba gavida.<br />

maxsovs sapreziden<strong>to</strong> arCevnebis Sedegebs vzimobdiT<br />

arkanzasis erT-erT sauniversite<strong>to</strong> kompleqsSi.<br />

didi dResaswauli iyo, studentebis jgufi erTxmad<br />

skandirebda “Yes, We Can!” (obamas kampaniis slogani –<br />

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aRar dasWirdebaT, rogorc makkeinis gaprezidentebis<br />

SemTxvevaSi apirebdnen.<br />

rodesac amerikaze fiqrob, warmoidgen met-naklebad<br />

liberalur sazogadoebas – dasavluri faseulobebi,<br />

demokratia da msgavsi. marTlac es aris amerika,<br />

oRond CrdiloeT StatebSi. wyalgamyofi vaSing<strong>to</strong>nia.<br />

rac ufro samxreTiT midixar, miT ufro xSirad gesmis<br />

SemaZrwunebeli religiuri mosazrebebi. vfiqrobdi,<br />

rom rogorc yirgizeTSi momuSave lgbt aqtivists, gamocdili<br />

mqonda mtruli damokidebulebis yvelanairi<br />

gamovlineba. sinamdvileSi, ralis 6 kviris ganmavloba-<br />

Si bevri ram gadamxda: Cemgan demonebis gandevnis mcdeloba,<br />

imis aRmoCena, rom Turme Cemi, rogorc qalis<br />

yvelaze RvTisieri da Zvirfasi movaleoba qmarze da<br />

ojaxze zrunvaa da rom `arasasurveli homoseqsualuri<br />

tendenciebi~ gankurnebadia. am ukanasknelma argumentma<br />

srul SokSi Camagdo. me yofili sabWoeli var<br />

da mwams samecniero progresis. ar mjeroda, rom viyavi<br />

progresul qveyanaSi da vismendi universitetis profesoris<br />

Segonebas imaze, Tu rogor ikurneba homoseqsualoba.<br />

Tan, ukeT rom daverwmunebine, misive wignis<br />

wakiTxva mirCia am Temaze.<br />

cota xniT warmoidgineT Tavi misisipis miyruebul<br />

qalaqSi, sadac yvelgan av<strong>to</strong>mobiliT gadaadgildebi<br />

da arcTu ise bevr adamians xvdebi eklesiis gareT.<br />

uaxloesi savaWro kompleqsi 1 saaTis savalzea da iqac<br />

ver waawydebi bevr TavSesaqcevs. mrevli Seni ojaxi<br />

xdeba, eklesiaSi siaruli ki _ mTavari rekreaciuli<br />

aqtivoba. Seni msoflmxedveloba imis safuZvelze yalibdeba,<br />

rasac eklesiaSi ismen. eklesiaSi manam midixar,<br />

sanam skolaSi migiyvanen. eklesia Sens sulier da saTemo<br />

socialur moTxovnilebas akmayofilebs; gaswavlis,<br />

rom im swavlebis kiTxvis niSnis qveS dayenebis ufleba<br />

ar gaqvs, romlis gavlenis qveS xar. arCevnebis wina<br />

dReebSi or eklesias vewvie, or sxvadasaxva StatSi da<br />

gavocdi, radgan orivegan zustad erTnairi qadageba<br />

movismine.<br />

iyo bevri gansxvavebuli denominaciis eklesiac.<br />

Tumca, bibliidan erTi da igive nawyvetis citire-<br />

uflebebi / RIGHTS<br />

response <strong>to</strong> California’s recognition of same-sex couples’<br />

right <strong>to</strong> marry earlier that year. Act 1 in Arkansas limited<br />

adoption rights <strong>to</strong> married couples only. Both initiatives<br />

passed. I was in Arkansas on Election Day, where<br />

we rejoiced in Obama’s vic<strong>to</strong>ry at a university campus.<br />

Balloons in the air, crowds of students cheering “Yes, We<br />

Can!” And then we got a call about Prop 8 passing in California.<br />

<strong>The</strong> news made us sad but it had little eff ect on<br />

the rest of the crowd. At least Obama was elected and<br />

my fellow Riders would not all have <strong>to</strong> move <strong>to</strong> Kyrgyzstan,<br />

as they had vowed <strong>to</strong> do if McCain were elected.<br />

When we think of the US, we tend <strong>to</strong> think of a more<br />

or less liberal society – Western values, democracy and<br />

the like. Well, yes, this is what the US is about, but only<br />

in the North. <strong>The</strong> line starts in Washing<strong>to</strong>n, DC, and the<br />

farther south you go, the more hardcore religious ideas<br />

you hear. Being an LGBT activist in Kyrgyzstan, I thought<br />

I’d seen it all and done it all in terms of hostility from the<br />

general public. During the six weeks on the Ride, people<br />

tried <strong>to</strong> exorcise demons from me; I was <strong>to</strong>ld that my<br />

only beautiful and precious God-given role as a woman<br />

was <strong>to</strong> take care of my husband and family and that “unwanted<br />

homosexual tendencies” can be treated. <strong>The</strong><br />

latter argument shook me <strong>to</strong> the core. As a person from<br />

the former Soviet Union, I tend <strong>to</strong> believe in scientifi c<br />

progress and I could not believe I was in a progressive<br />

country hearing an academic professional claiming that<br />

homosexuality can be treated and trying <strong>to</strong> get me <strong>to</strong><br />

read his book about it.<br />

Imagine living in a small <strong>to</strong>wn in Mississippi, where<br />

you need <strong>to</strong> drive everywhere and you don’t see <strong>to</strong>o<br />

many people anywhere outside church. <strong>The</strong> nearest mall<br />

is one hour away and there is nothing else <strong>to</strong> do. <strong>The</strong><br />

people in the church become your family and church<br />

becomes your main leisure activity. What you hear in<br />

the church also defi nes your world view, because you<br />

go there even before you enter the educational system.<br />

<strong>The</strong> church meets your spiritual and community needs.<br />

It also teaches you not <strong>to</strong> question the belief system that<br />

you are ex<strong>posed</strong> <strong>to</strong>. During the week ahead of the elections,<br />

I went <strong>to</strong> two churches in two diff erent states and<br />

was surprised <strong>to</strong> hear the same sermon.<br />

<strong>The</strong> churches were also diff erent denominations.<br />

Same Bible verses quoted, same message. A lot of my<br />

Christian LGBT friends on the Ride said that when they<br />

came out <strong>to</strong> their family or church, there would be sermons<br />

about homosexuality being a sin when they would<br />

go <strong>to</strong> church. Some of them confessed their sin <strong>to</strong> pas<strong>to</strong>rs<br />

and tried “praying the gay away”, but it did not work.<br />

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