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CO-EDUCATION 219<br />
ignored by the man on the top of the bus ; distrusted<br />
even by some members of the Parents' National Educational<br />
Union, who generally favour experiments. Why f<br />
Because it is a school where adolescent boys and girls<br />
are prepared together for life's problems and demands ;<br />
associating with each other freely and naturally during<br />
the slippery years, as they have for long done through<br />
childhood and will do at the Universities. Why is it that<br />
the easy-going, tolerant Englishman when he catches the<br />
word co-education still shakes his head ?<br />
I am not quite sure of the answer to this question ;<br />
except that it is our way to give some simple reason against<br />
a new idea brought to our notice, which !s rarely, if ever,<br />
the fundamental objection ; and to get at the latter is<br />
far from easy, because the objector himself has not<br />
formulated it, and is often wholly unconscious of it.<br />
Possibly men are still infiuenced by unsavoury memories<br />
of their own boyhood, when, as many records testify, the<br />
only educational principle generally observed was laissezaller--neglect,<br />
in short. If the public conscience was so<br />
dead a.s to permit horrible cruelty towards little children,<br />
it is not strange that schoolboys were neglected and the<br />
life in the big boarding-schools was coarse and barbarous.<br />
It was taken for granted that it must be so, and this idea<br />
lingers. But, then, why expose our daughters to the<br />
same very undesirable and indeed debasing experiences f<br />
Why, indeed t But supposing Nature, as we call her,<br />
provides in girlhood an antidote to the coarser strains of<br />
the boy-temperament ! Who are we that we should fancy<br />
ourselves justified in forgoing the safeguard f Again, as<br />
aJready emphasized, even in the boys' schools there has<br />
come about an unmistakable " cleansing of public<br />
opinion," as Plato calls it. Imsgine, then, the conditions<br />
when with a small and manageable number of boys and<br />
girls in nearly equal proportions, a headmaster and his<br />
wife, real pastors of the flock, establish such a s:onfidential<br />
relation with the pupils that no one of them could for<br />
a moment doubt the willingness, the wisdom, and the