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CO-EDUCATION 219<br />

ignored by the man on the top of the bus ; distrusted<br />

even by some members of the Parents' National Educational<br />

Union, who generally favour experiments. Why f<br />

Because it is a school where adolescent boys and girls<br />

are prepared together for life's problems and demands ;<br />

associating with each other freely and naturally during<br />

the slippery years, as they have for long done through<br />

childhood and will do at the Universities. Why is it that<br />

the easy-going, tolerant Englishman when he catches the<br />

word co-education still shakes his head ?<br />

I am not quite sure of the answer to this question ;<br />

except that it is our way to give some simple reason against<br />

a new idea brought to our notice, which !s rarely, if ever,<br />

the fundamental objection ; and to get at the latter is<br />

far from easy, because the objector himself has not<br />

formulated it, and is often wholly unconscious of it.<br />

Possibly men are still infiuenced by unsavoury memories<br />

of their own boyhood, when, as many records testify, the<br />

only educational principle generally observed was laissezaller--neglect,<br />

in short. If the public conscience was so<br />

dead a.s to permit horrible cruelty towards little children,<br />

it is not strange that schoolboys were neglected and the<br />

life in the big boarding-schools was coarse and barbarous.<br />

It was taken for granted that it must be so, and this idea<br />

lingers. But, then, why expose our daughters to the<br />

same very undesirable and indeed debasing experiences f<br />

Why, indeed t But supposing Nature, as we call her,<br />

provides in girlhood an antidote to the coarser strains of<br />

the boy-temperament ! Who are we that we should fancy<br />

ourselves justified in forgoing the safeguard f Again, as<br />

aJready emphasized, even in the boys' schools there has<br />

come about an unmistakable " cleansing of public<br />

opinion," as Plato calls it. Imsgine, then, the conditions<br />

when with a small and manageable number of boys and<br />

girls in nearly equal proportions, a headmaster and his<br />

wife, real pastors of the flock, establish such a s:onfidential<br />

relation with the pupils that no one of them could for<br />

a moment doubt the willingness, the wisdom, and the

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