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Chanukah 5770/2009 - Jewish Infertility

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Chizuk<br />

An<br />

Egg’straordinary<br />

Story<br />

SHAAREI TIKVAH/ CHANUKAH <strong>2009</strong><br />

There is a well known parable describing a person who<br />

sees the back of a tapestry. Horrified by the mess of<br />

strings and knots, he wonders why the artist has spent so<br />

many hours on the production of this eyesore. The artist<br />

quietly leads the onlooker around to the front of the tapestry,<br />

where he is shown the exquisite colors, the striking<br />

design and the beautiful image that is now clear. The onlooker<br />

gasps and exclaims to the artist, “Now I understand!<br />

I was looking at the tapestry from the wrong side.”<br />

This poignant mashal depicts our lives beautifully. During<br />

difficult times, we see life in tangles. Knots and loose<br />

strings are difficult to understand, and we sometimes wonder<br />

at the purpose of it all. We must remember that our<br />

perspective is limited. We see only the back of the tapestry.<br />

The Master Artist is creating a beautiful design that we,<br />

with our limited vision, just cannot fathom.<br />

Some people know from the outset that they may have<br />

problems conceiving and bearing children; for others this<br />

realization is a slow process, only dawning on them after<br />

waiting for seemingly endless months. These people then<br />

have to decide what to do and where to turn. We belonged<br />

to the second category. Our infertility was like a dripping<br />

tap, as slowly but surely, we realized that there was indeed<br />

a problem and that we should really be doing something<br />

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