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Afternoon of Alterity - Nazareth College

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the first advocating voices for ending discrimination and advancealtruistic and objective love as the true sources <strong>of</strong> human happinesshas been sadly rested beneath the moniker <strong>of</strong> Anonymous.The question <strong>of</strong> how one achieves such a benevolent dissent hasbeen discussed earlier in this argument, in terms <strong>of</strong> deceptive love.However the method in which that deceptive form <strong>of</strong> love createsan enlightened view <strong>of</strong> reality is where the real emotional revelationlies. The method <strong>of</strong> that revelation lies in the final scene <strong>of</strong> SirGawain and the Green Knight at the moment <strong>of</strong> the realization <strong>of</strong> SirGawain that his whole quest has been a set-up, a quest unmaskedby the Green Knight, or Lord Bercilak as one which was purposelymeant to confuse and complicate: “Morgana sent me to your king’scastle/ to test your pride, to determine the truth/ Of the RoundTable’s fame, and the tales that tell it./ She hoped my lopped-<strong>of</strong>fhead would addle/ your brains” (Raffel 131). Through revelation<strong>of</strong> his true intent, the Green Knight begins to build a relationshipwith Sir Gawain, especially as their differences melt away in the face<strong>of</strong> reconciliation.Here is where the process <strong>of</strong> talking things out, interpersonalcommunication, becomes an important process <strong>of</strong> developinglong-lasting, positive relationships. The Green Knight discloseshis personal feelings to Sir Gawain: “the green man laughed, andcourteously explained/…you took/ Such plain penance at thepoint <strong>of</strong> my axe/ That I hold you cleansed, as pure in heart” (Raffel130). This method <strong>of</strong> disclosing personal feelings, combined withthe small tale told <strong>of</strong> Morgana Le Fay and her intentions, give twoexceptional details <strong>of</strong> what building true, loving relationships isall about: Communication and empathy. Communication, in theform <strong>of</strong> self-disclosure , is “one <strong>of</strong> the most effective ways to developand manage personal relationships and an essential requirementfor mental health” (Forgas 1), which is especially interesting whenapplied to the situational context, where the Green Knight is in alauren apt 49

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