Adults’ <strong>Voices</strong>Are <strong>children</strong> punished in your community?Yes. We beat <strong>the</strong>m. How else will <strong>the</strong>y learnrespect for elders?female, parent, NakapiripiritA few people spoil <strong>the</strong>ir <strong>children</strong> and do notpunish <strong>the</strong>m at all, but <strong>the</strong>se are few.female, parent, IgangaParents don’t like to beat, but sometimes youhave no choice.female, parent, WakisoThere are two groups [<strong>of</strong> <strong>children</strong>]. Those forwhom a look is enough and those who have tobe beaten senseless to put some sense in <strong>the</strong>m!male, community leader, ApacYes, many. Some parents even bring <strong>the</strong>ir<strong>children</strong> when <strong>the</strong>y are tired <strong>of</strong> beating <strong>the</strong>mand ask us to put some manners in <strong>the</strong>m. “Don’thave mercy until he changes his ways,” <strong>the</strong>y say.male, teacher, WakisoIt is common. All <strong>children</strong> are punished. Theboys need more punishment because <strong>the</strong>y areunruly. Girls are always obedient.male, teacher, KaseseIt’s everyday. That is normal and right,o<strong>the</strong>rwise <strong>the</strong>re would be no discipline in ourhouses.female, parent, NakapiripiritMany <strong>children</strong> are punished, because when <strong>the</strong>yare young <strong>the</strong>y tend to annoy <strong>the</strong>ir parentsmore.male, parent, ApacYes, most <strong>children</strong> are punished in thiscommunity if and when <strong>the</strong>y commitmisbehaviour. Although some people do itexcessively, but o<strong>the</strong>rs give normal punishmentin order to teach <strong>the</strong>ir <strong>children</strong> good behaviourand set <strong>the</strong>m on <strong>the</strong> right path.male, community leader, ApacThat’s not a serious question! Of course <strong>the</strong>yare.male, community leader, ApacYes. We get <strong>children</strong> from all types <strong>of</strong> homesin this school. We must put <strong>the</strong>m right [bypunishing].female, teacher, IgangaYes, many are punished, especially step<strong>children</strong>.In this school we have many <strong>children</strong> who aretortured at home by <strong>the</strong>ir stepmo<strong>the</strong>rs.female, teacher, Iganga60 Part Three Adults’ Rationale
Adults’ <strong>Voices</strong>Culturally, we watch <strong>the</strong> girls and punish <strong>the</strong>mmost keenly. If we do not punish her <strong>the</strong>n weruin <strong>the</strong> whole nation.female, community leader, IgangaIt [punishment] is common in schools. Childrencome here when <strong>the</strong>y are wild!male, teacher, NakapiripiritChildren are undisciplined and have to bepunished.male, community leader, KaseseChildren today are very stubborn and have tobe punished.female, community leader, KaseseYes, all <strong>children</strong> are punished because that iswhat is expected from all responsible parents.female, community leader, IgangaAll <strong>children</strong> need disciplining, from birth tillwhen <strong>the</strong>y are old. Without punishment, <strong>the</strong>ybecome wild.male, parent, NakapiripiritSpare <strong>the</strong> rod, spoil <strong>the</strong> child. Even <strong>the</strong> Biblesays punish your child to make him a good child.We punish everyday.male, parent, ApacEvery child needs punishment to grow. Yes, Ibeat. The harder you beat, <strong>the</strong> better he willlearn what you are teaching.female, teacher, NakapiripiritWe as teachers rarely beat <strong>children</strong>.female, teacher, KasesePunishment is as old as man, because evenGod punished Adam, so we will not hesitate topunish. We punish regularly.male, community leader, WakisoPart Three Adults’ Rationale 61