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Violence against children, the voices of Ugandan ... - Raising Voices

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Adults’ <strong>Voices</strong>Do you punish <strong>children</strong>? How?Yes, I punish any child that does not know howto behave.male, parent, NakapiripiritI do. It is my duty to make sure <strong>children</strong> behavewell. If I don’t punish <strong>the</strong>y will get out <strong>of</strong>control.female, community leader, KaseseThere are as many ways to punish a child as<strong>the</strong>re are <strong>children</strong>. What is important is that <strong>the</strong>child experiences pain and remembers <strong>the</strong> pain.male, community leader, WakisoDepends on what he has done. Small, smallmistakes, I shout at him. If he has insulted anelder, I beat him. If he has stolen, I seriouslybeat him, lock him up, and don’t speak to himfor a few days.male, parent, IgangaMost parents mix according to <strong>the</strong> situation. Ifyou have a stubborn child, you use a stick. Ifyou have an obedient one, a look is enough.female, parent, IgangaAdults’ <strong>Voices</strong>As teachers, we rarely punish. We refer to <strong>the</strong>headmaster.female, teacher, ApacThere is not one way to punish. Different<strong>children</strong> need different things. But generallyI leave it to my wife to do all <strong>the</strong> correction,since she is with <strong>the</strong>m all <strong>the</strong> time. If somethingserious happens, that’s when I step in.male, parent, NakapiripiritI just react. I throw something at him or use mytongue, or anything.female, parent, IgangaI try to talk with <strong>the</strong>m before punishing, butmost times <strong>the</strong>y know why I am angry, so<strong>the</strong>re is no need to waste my words. I just stoptalking to <strong>the</strong>m or let my stick do <strong>the</strong> talking.male, community leader, KaseseNowadays parents are spoiling <strong>children</strong>. Theybeg [<strong>children</strong>] to behave better as if that’s whatan adult should be doing. If <strong>the</strong> child doesn’tfear your look or hasn’t felt <strong>the</strong> pain <strong>of</strong> yourpalm, <strong>the</strong>n you have failed as a parent.male, community leader, Kasese64 Part Three Adults’ Rationale

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