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presented in this report that the most<br />

successful competitors—those who win at<br />

true sport—love what they do and strive<br />

constantly for their personal best. In the<br />

words of National Football League legend<br />

Walter Payton, “I never played to get into<br />

the Hall of Fame. I only tried to be the best<br />

that I could be.”<br />

All too often, though, the lure of<br />

winning, fame, and notoriety stretches<br />

its grasp from the world of professional<br />

sports down to the preschool playground.<br />

The indicators of a society that aims to<br />

win at any and all costs are plentiful: early<br />

specialization, overtraining, teams and<br />

programs that deny opportunities to less<br />

developed and less talented children before<br />

they have a chance to grow into their<br />

bodies, overzealous parents, intolerant<br />

coaches, obnoxious fans, athletes who use<br />

performance-enhancing drugs or otherwise<br />

break the rules, and elite professional<br />

athletes who have lost their moral way.<br />

The athletes placed on pedestals by our<br />

youth are modeling the way for the next<br />

generations, for better or for worse.<br />

Do we really want to win at any cost?<br />

Setting that as a goal invites a multitude of<br />

abuses. If we can learn to lose with grace<br />

after a fair and well-fought match, respect<br />

ourselves or the athletes on the field<br />

because of their efforts, and look forward<br />

to the next contest, then not winning<br />

can become a lesson learned. Especially<br />

at the youth level, we need to remember<br />

why we play sport. It is to reap the benefits<br />

of engaging in an activity that provides<br />

returns on so many levels, regardless of<br />

the outcome.<br />

We have to remember that in sport,<br />

like so many other areas of life, outcomes<br />

are not always more important than experiences.<br />

The experience of preparing for<br />

and playing sport provides the essential<br />

intrinsic rewards that successful athletes<br />

talk about. Winning is the “cherry on<br />

top,” the “icing on the cake.” But it is not<br />

the “only thing” we should want from<br />

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