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Etiquette:- Dress Code<br />
A Candid Christian<br />
Perspective on Dressing<br />
By Phyllis Njoroge<br />
Our dressing is one key thing that defines the kind of person<br />
one really is. We tend to judge people according to how<br />
they are dressed. In public speaking for example, we are<br />
tempted to accept or dismiss a speaker based on how they<br />
are dressed. If a speaker is well groomed, he or she is bound to have<br />
some influence over people even before he or she says a word to<br />
them.<br />
Many people invest a lot of money in clothing in order to please<br />
themselves, while others do so to become acceptable to their peers.<br />
As Christians, however, one thing is true; clothing is a key necessity<br />
in revealing the image and the values that we represent; that of God.<br />
From the story of creation in Genesis, clothes play an important role<br />
in covering <strong>our</strong> shame. After the fall of man, God made clothing for<br />
Adam and Eve, to cover their shame. Likewise, when Jesus comes<br />
into <strong>our</strong> lives, He does not cover <strong>our</strong> blemishes with makeup, but<br />
embraces us with his love and clothes us with His righteousness.<br />
“Y<strong>our</strong> body is sacred. Respect it and do not defile it...” This is<br />
agreeably a familiar phrase to many. As a Christian, it would be<br />
careless to say, “how I dress is no one’s business!” On the contrary,<br />
humans were created in God’s image (Genesis 1:26); therefore, how<br />
we look should reflect God’s holiness. In 1Timothy 2:9-10, the Apostle<br />
Paul writes, “I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency<br />
and propriety, adorning themselves not with elaborate hairstyles or<br />
gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate<br />
for women who worship the Lord”.<br />
Clothes may not define us as Christians, but <strong>our</strong> identity<br />
is revealed through what we wear. Christians do not have a<br />
standardized way of dressing but we are urged to follow Christ’s<br />
lifestyle. Most of the time we are at fault when we get carried away<br />
by the short term attention and adoration that comes with alluring<br />
clothing, at the expense of the long-term holiness that comes with<br />
modesty.<br />
One moral in the story of Samson and Delilah in Judges is that<br />
how we look may attract various kinds of people to us. Samson fell in<br />
love with Delilah because of her outward appearance notwithstanding<br />
that she was a Philistine. This applies to <strong>our</strong> Christian life today;<br />
irresponsible dressing may attract the wrong kind of people to us; it<br />
may attract a mix of non-believers and interfere with <strong>our</strong> relationship<br />
with God. Hence, as Apostle Paul puts it, Christians should teach the<br />
younger generation how to live as believers.<br />
Undeniably, the topic of modesty in dressing is becoming very<br />
important as we move into the perilous immoral times. However,<br />
modesty is a matter of the heart; a person’s heart must get it right<br />
about modesty before real and lasting changes are made.<br />
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Artwork by : T. Okuku<br />
Example of Dress Code:<br />
Example of Dress<br />
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