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72 <strong>Group</strong>-<strong>Analytic</strong> Society International - <strong>Contexts</strong><br />

feelings among the members of the group. But the overall sensation<br />

produced by the people standing and talking in a random way, was<br />

that of a movement, the illusion of sea waves, leading to an end or to<br />

a beginning, caressing or drowning, traveling or anchoring, opening<br />

or closing, agreeing or disagreeing, expressing group ‘symmetry or<br />

asymmetry’; an application of Koukis’s ‘uncertainty principle, the<br />

cornerstone of quantum mechanics’.<br />

The concept of time was incepted by my mind like a<br />

calculated integral, defined as a possibility and not a certainty, of<br />

living and functioning within changeable and changing time limits.<br />

Anxiety was produced by the fifteen-minute shortness of the group, as<br />

well as by the unexampled extension, expansion and dilatation of the<br />

time table. It looked as if we change the borders in order to create<br />

Winnocott’s ‘interpersonal space’, where we can meet, group and<br />

create a Foulkes’s ‘configuration matrix’. Perhaps this stress,<br />

combined with a sense that there is not enough time, promoted the<br />

tendency to interrupt each other and the conductor, hearing neither our<br />

voice, nor the other’s.<br />

A dominant issue in the large group was that of wives and<br />

women. Irritation and frustration repeatedly covered the sessions<br />

about gender conflicts. Are we fighting de novo a war in which we<br />

women were victorious? It was the battle of our mothers and<br />

grandmothers. Why victimize ourselves all over again? Why choosing<br />

stigmatization, discrimination, marginalization? We have the nonnegotiable<br />

unpalatable birth right of equality in being humans and not<br />

women or men, black or white, old or young, natives or newcomers.<br />

It seemed as a compulsive repetition of the vicious circle and return to<br />

the beginning of the phallic mother in a disparate modus operandi.<br />

Our dear colleagues from Spain wanted to organize a<br />

Spanish-speaking-symposium right after the terrorist attack in<br />

Barcelona. Interestingly, this shift to the coiling around the national<br />

group of ‘us’ felt like the start of building a bridge leading to<br />

Barcelona 2020. Even though I do not speak Spanish, it felt as if I did.<br />

Moreover, it felt as if I spoke all the other different languages spoken<br />

in the large group, even if they were spoken in English, namely using<br />

pronunciation, metaphors and linguistic idioms of the mother<br />

language in English. There was a hesitant closeness, using<br />

differentness, not sameness as a starting point.<br />

The German premiere of Wilhelm Rӧsing’s and Marita<br />

Barthel-Rӧsing’s film about <strong>Group</strong> Analysis with Liesel Hearst and<br />

Malcolm Pines, offered the opportunity of ‘meeting’ with the<br />

‘Pioneers of <strong>Group</strong> Analysis’. There is more and more a sense that the

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