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By: Adrea Nairne-Barrera / 60s to 60<br />
while back I discussed how technology<br />
A has taken the personal touch out of the<br />
traditions we held dear - such as hand written<br />
holiday cards. I refused then, and I refuse now, to use the internet to<br />
send a friend a holiday greeting.<br />
Whatever holiday you celebrate, it’s supposed to be a time of peace,<br />
love and friendship. That actually requires a little effort! To use the<br />
internet to avoid a note, a card or a photo is just plain lazy.<br />
As for gifts, they’re on line too. We can’t fight it. I reluctantly accept<br />
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Electronic Wishes & Other Annoying Holiday Treats<br />
Songsters “Got Talent”<br />
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45+ seniors living in Sun City Aliante 55+ Community who love to<br />
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that option because going to some of these stores really is a pain<br />
anyway. I guess I’m a hypocrite after all.<br />
Anyway I’m still sending cards and notes. And when I look in the<br />
mailbox to see someone sent one back, I get so excited! If the annual<br />
holiday letter is included, I read every word even if it’s boring. Someone<br />
actually put thought into the letter and that’s wonderful.<br />
Let’s move on to re-gifting. That is certainly a slippery slope because<br />
my circle of friends is much smaller than it used to be. With friends<br />
leaving town and others have passed, many friends know each other so<br />
a re-gift is out of the question.<br />
I’m not willing to chance someone going to visit a mutual friend<br />
and finding their gift to me sitting on the coffee table. It limits the<br />
possibilities, so if Pier One doesn’t have what I want, I hit the internet.<br />
Now let’s talk about all the shopping confusion like Black Friday<br />
starting after Halloween or Cyber Monday after Black Friday which now<br />
runs through the day after Thanksgiving. The stores don’t want you<br />
to be with family on Thanksgiving because they’re announcing the<br />
Black Friday door busters after you’ve stuffed yourself with turkey and<br />
waddled to the store.<br />
And if you happen to survive the layaway counter at Walmart, which<br />
starts during the summer, they’ve killed your spirit entirely.<br />
When I was a kid, the holidays were exciting. Everything sparkled,<br />
people were happy and Santa was at Macy’s on 34 th Street. All the<br />
stores had glorious moving displays & ice skaters were at Rockefeller<br />
Center. Even subway cars had happy people with shopping bags of gifts.<br />
(Obviously I’m from New York City).<br />
Not one person knew what the internet was or how to send an<br />
electronic greeting card. We even had a party line phone and it was<br />
the one time we would actually butt in to a conversation to send good<br />
wishes.<br />
I don’t want to return to the 50s but a little less technology and a lot<br />
more personal interaction would sure be nice. Happy Holidays to all!<br />
Adrea Nairne-Barrera writes of celebrations, observations &<br />
complaints of life in the 60s to being in your 60s.