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STYLE | wellbeing 73<br />

of what they value most. One of the wisest ways to inspire<br />

teens is to first help them determine their true and current<br />

highest values – and secondly, to help them fill their day with<br />

meaningful activities that are congruent with those highest values<br />

(or at least link the activities requested of them to their top<br />

three highest values), so they feel they are achieving what they<br />

would love and doing something meaningful.<br />

Everyone, regardless of age, culture or gender, lives by a<br />

unique set of values – a hierarchy of values or priorities. When<br />

your teen aligns their daily actions with that which is most<br />

important to them, it awakens greater competence and allows<br />

them to fill their day with spontaneously inspired actions. It<br />

encourages discussion about the goals that inspire them and<br />

what they can pursue to help fulfil those aims. When you help<br />

them fulfil what is truly most important to them, they are more<br />

resilient to including other requested activities.<br />

It’s also important to allow your teen to have adequate<br />

personal freedom and autonomy to explore and experience<br />

what is truly most meaningful to them. In doing so, they learn<br />

to embrace the balance of the challenges and opportunities<br />

that come with it. With a loving balance of parental challenge<br />

and support, your teen will naturally develop the habits and<br />

self-confidence to solve any challenges they encounter in their<br />

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