26012020 - How bad an example was set in Zamfara

SUNDAY Vanguard, JANUARY 26, 2020, PAGE 23
He gave his friend’s fiance a mind-blowing wedding gift!
Agroup of us was hav
ing this heated con
versation about
how fickle men really were
and how ready they always
were to have a fling whenever
the opportunity presented
itself, no matter how
serious their current relationship
was. Phil disagreed
but was reluctant to
discuss details in front of
so many listeners. So I cornered
him later. What happened
to him all those
years ago, he smirked, still
leaves a dirty smile on his
face whenever he remembers.
His story; “I’d always
envied Festus in spite of the
fact that we were good
friends. He had the good
looks that girls easily went
for, on top of which, he was
a co-owner of a finance
house in the era of the proliferation
of finance houses.
His two cars were none of
your tokunbo variety and he
also had a bevy of sexy girlfriends
to boot.
“Most of them were in the
banking business like
Festus whilst I worked in a
Federal Ministry. But we’d
been friends since our university
days and our relationship
worked. He liked
the flashy lifestyle and I was
happy to tag along with
him. In spite of his string of
girlfriends, he made the effort
to introduce me to Lola
soon after they started dating.
“She was very cute with
glossy skin, an impressive
height and a curvaceous
body. I smiled, thinking this
relationship would soon go
the way of the others and it
was usually Festus that
gave the girls the boots.
But a few months later, it
was obvious that Lola was
special to him. He didn’t
hop around girls as he
used to and even Maria,
the ex-girlfriend we were
all familiar with and
who’d always had sex with
Festus on and off through
his many relationships,
was off the scene. He
didn’t hang out with us
much on Friday nights
though we still had a few
nights out now and then.
“When Festus confided
in me that they would soon
be getting married, I was
actually jealous. I know
that sounds inconsiderate,
but Festus was my best
friend, and through him,
I’d met a few friends of his
gorgeous girlfriends. Now
he would be too busy planning
and saving for the
wedding to have time for
his friends. So when the
Easter period came and
we planned the usual holiday
in a neighbouring
country, I was pleasantly
surprised when Festus
agreed to come with Lola.
Well, that was better than
not having him around at
all as he often picked up
a few tabs. I would have
to forget about meeting
any girl through him even
though I was in-between
girlfriends, and Lola
wouldn’t be bringing any
friends.
“The first night was
great as we relaxed by the
pool of the hotel we
lodged at and went to the
night club later. The next
day, Festus came down
with a nasty diarrhoea
and couldn’t do much. But
he urged me to take Lola
with us for the much advertised
Easter Sunday
bash. Up till then, I’d fancied
her and we’d flirted
outrageously, but that was
it. I never thought for a
moment that anything
would ever come of it. At
the Easter party, we
started off ok, but as the
wine flowed, so did flirting.
When Festus was
around, it was just fun, without
him, the tension became
real. There was the
feeling that we just might
end up in bed together. I
couldn’t believe my luck! I
knew I should put a stop to
things right then, but I also
realized I couldn’t.
Chances like this didn’t
come my way that often.
The other couples left and
I asked Lola to drink up so
I could drive her back to
the hotel.
“By this time, we’d both
had too much drink. In the
car, I tried to talk about the
impending wedding, but
when I mentioned it, Lola
grabbed my crotch. I was
shocked. I should have put
a stop to things right then
but when she suggested we
parked somewhere quiet, I
didn’t hesitate. As she
made a play for me, it was
the invitation I was looking
for. She giggled mischievously
as I reclined the
seat of the roomy car and
the sex that night was the
most incredible of my life.
The fact that I was having
a bit of the forbidden fruit
just made the turn-on better.
The blow job she gave
me was out of this world
and she knew just when to
slip a condom on me, talking
real dirty and telling
me she’d never had such a
mind-blowing sex. That
boosted my ego no end-for
once, I was doing something
better than Festus.
“It was incredible luck
that we never got caught as
we both came very loudly.
When it was over, I was suddenly
sober and hugged
her, hoping we could do it
again. But Lola was obviously
feeling guilty and terrified
I’d tell Festus. She
apologized over and over
again, saying she shouldn’t
have lost control like she
did. I promised I wouldn’t
tell Festus and I meant it. I
felt guilty too but never
would I regret that kind of
sexual experience.
“We were awkwardly
quiet on the drive back to
the hotel and I felt sorry for
Lola. The sex was just flirting
that got out of hand after
too many booze, and I
was sure the experience
was bound to affect my
friendship with Festus. He
noticed the atmosphere between
us the next day and I
lied that we hadn’t got on
that well on our own - that
we didn’t have that much
in common. My friend was
too conceited to suspect
any thing that happened.
Deep down, however, I knew
Lola fancied me, and that
last night she’d wanted me
more than her fiance. That
gave my ego a real boost!
“As the day of their wedding
drew near, I saw much
less of the two of them. Even
on the few times I was
alone with her, neither of us
mentioned our night of
passion or flirted. After they
got married, Lola avoided
me. I wasn’t jealous, Festus
married her - afterall, I
knew only too well what
Lola could get up to behind
his back. I was relieved
when Festus chose his
younger brother to be best
man. If I’d been chosen,
heavens only knew what
type of speech I would have
delivered...”
WEEKLY HOROSCOPE
By Joshua Adeyemo joshuaadeyemo@yahoo.com
ABOUT THE MOON
Periods of the Moon’s fluctuation as given here-under,
are when unexpected frustrations and disappointments
are possible .And those are the times when other people
should not be taken for granted. Any period with hysteric (*)
should be handled more carefully. However if I write
that such periods/days favour you, you have no cause
to worry. Therefore you are advised to plan your week
carefully. Such periods/days are:
12 mid-night to 12.46am of Sunday (same day)
2.10am to 12.52pm of Wednesday (same day)
4.11pm of Friday to12.29am of Saturday
.During the week, Moon will go through Aquarius, Pisces,
Aries and Taurus.
AQUARIUS (Jan 20 – Feb 18)
BUSINESS; It is important you take advantage of your very
active mind.
MONEY; Both your efforts and support from others’ll bring
success. Utilise Monday.
LOVE; Desire for money may not allow free flow of romantic
feelings. Utilise Saturday.
PISCES (Feb 19 – Mar 19)
BUSINESS; If you appear too soft, others’ll be willing to
intimidate you wrongly.
MONEY; Much’ll depend on your actions and/or inaction.
Wake up from slumber
LOVE; Think about your image, immediate and far future
before important decision.
ARIES ( Mar 20 – Apr 19)
BUSINESS; You’re a born fighter in many ways. Exhibit your
positive talents.
MONEY; Your initiative will bring you good results, especially
on Friday.
LOVE; Social activities may provide better opportunities from
Thursday to Saturday.
TAURUS ( Apr 20 – May 20)
BUSINESS; Your popularity is soaring up but you will need
to beware of avoidable accident.
MONEY; Tuesday’ll bring both challenges and good result.
Keep your secrets on Friday.
LOVE; Take seriously some friends who are trying to play
role of good intermediaries
GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)
BUSINESS; To succeed, you’ve got to resist temptation of
mixing business and pleasure.
MONEY; Friday can be said to be best of good days of this
week for you. Be smart.
LOVE; Your spouse may exhibit resentment if much of your
attention is given to strangers.
CANCER (June 21 – July 22)
BUSINESS; Many of you’ll show ambitious urge to excel
along your career/business line.
MONEY; If you can ignore distraction on Thursday you’ll
record needed financial success.
LOVE; Stranger and/or foreigners may become your sources
of attraction. Be more careful
LEO (Jul 23 – Aug 22)
BUSINESS; You’ll need to be as practical as possible to
avoid minor but costly mistakes.
MONEY; Whatever happens you’ll smile broadly on Thursday.
Say no to bad agreement.
LOVE; Early part of the week’ll bring excitement. Make sure
you don’t step on sensitive toes.
VIRGO (Aug 23 – Sept 22)
BUSINESS; Partnership business looks deceptively attractive
but not really the best for now.
MONEY; If you can keep your secrets as you go after your
desire, you’ll smile on Friday
LOVE; Pleasure indicated early in the week but, your
finances’ll be made to pay for this.
LIBRA (Sept 23 – Oct 22)
BUSINESS : Your mind is active yet, romantic thought may
affect your concentration at work.
MONEY; Tuesday’ll bring success to those of you working
harder. Be serious minded.
LOVE; Love attractions at work’ll prove difficult for many to
resist. Enjoy this Sunday.
SCORPIO (Oct 23 – Nov 21)
BUSINESS; Urge to work harder’ll descend on you after
Tuesday. Think about your health.
MONEY; Going around with physical money’ll prove to be
a bad mistakes. Be wise.
LOVE; Passionate week indicated for young at heart. It is
impossible buy real love with money.
SAGITTARIUS (Nov 22 – Dec21)
BUSINESS; Aggressive approach on your part may offend
others at your base of operation.
MONEY; Moderation on your part is what can prevent unexpected
financial trouble on Friday.
LOVE; Desire for romance may bring excitement but no
pleasure after the mid-week panorama.
CAPRICORN (Dec 22 – Jan 19)
BUSINESS; After mid-week, there’ll be pressure within
your base of operation.
MONEY; Gambling of any type can only bring painful results
on Friday.
LOVE; The very best for you is to seek total peace at home. Be
family minded.
ASTROLOGICAL COUNSELING 4 LOVERS
ARE THEY COMPATIBLE ?
Kindly check these two horoscopes and tell me if they are
compatible or not. My daughter was born October 28, 1997
the man’s date is January 1, 1982. What days of the week were
they born ?
Salamotu
Auchi
Dear Salamotu,
She was born on a Tuesday and the man was born on Friday.
In terms of love and/or relationship ; to summarise her comprehensive
Solar horoscope is to proclaim her a potential
GOOD WIFE who must be in total control of both her husband,
home and social activities of all. Equally she is a powerful
protector of everything and all that are dear to her heart.
Yes, he is aggressive, passionate and once her mind is made up,
on matters-of-the-heart, it will prove very difficult to have a
change of heart. Thus she desires very stable home and conducive
domestic affairs. She can be the pillar of stability needed
by a successful marriage.
On his part, to understand him a bit I will give meanings of
the three most important influences that shows both what he
knows about himself and some of his sub-conscious self. Here
I am writing about placement of his Natal Sun (basic self
hood) in business minded but cool and patient Capricorn, Moon
(sub conscious him) in compassionate Pisces and Stallion (another
indicator of a person characteristics) in peace loving
Libra. That is to say basic characteristics of the said three Stars
are highly pronounced in him.