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Enjoy Cape May! 11/7: Around 11am At The Mad Batter PHOTOGRAPHS BY ALEKSEY MORYAKOV Christmas in Cape May Nov. 20, 2020 - Jan. 7, 2021 Get in the holiday spirit as we celebrate in Victorian Cape May! Amy, Lori, Lana Tree-Lighting Ceremony Nov. 21, 2020: 4-8:30pm Join us as we kick off the holiday season! Santa will light the tree at 7pm. Emlen Physick Estate | 1048 Washington St. HOLIDAY TOURS & EVENTS Physick Family Christmas House Tours Holiday Lights Trolley Tours Evening Yuletide House Tours Dr. Physick Christmas Tours Lamplighter Christmas Walking Tours Santa’s Trolley Ride • Dickens of a Murder Ghosts of Christmas Past Trolley Tours Breakfast with Santa Brunch & Bingo at the Beach Visit website for more info & full schedule! Purchase tickets at www.capemaymac.org or call 609-884-5404 Oner family from Turkey, Kaplan family Sara, Tori, Susan Page 50 EXIT ZERO November 26, 2020
The Answer Lady invites inquiries from gentle readers on all manner of relationship quandaries, matters of the heart and ethics. If you’d like to send a query, write to info@exitzero.us. Or, simply sit back, enjoy a cup of coffee and contemplate the wisdom herein. Dear Answer Lady I’m a bartender and furloughed with the new COVID restrictions. The problem, other than being out of work, is that I can’t tear myself away from Facebook, Twitter, Instagram or any other social media outlet. Hardly any of it is inspirational. Most of it is depressing but I can’t stop myself from going back to it. Any words of wisdom? — Social Media Junkie Dear SM Junkie The Answer Lady suggests finding a purpose other than work or sitting idly by. Carve out a strict “work” schedule for yourself which should include going to North Beach Gym and even adding a trainer to get you jump started. If money is an issue, you can run/walk along the Promenade. Also, set aside an hour or The Answer Lady Wise answers to perplexing questions two for reading or listening to music. Finally, limit your time on the internet. Put the phone in a drawer. Cold turkey is not a good idea but limiting your computer/Smart Phone use to an hour a day should get you back on track. Also, Kaleidoscope sells a book titled Unplugged. Use it as a guide to curb your addiction. Dear Answer Lady My husband died about a year ago. I was devastated and his brother has been a comfort to me and also suffered a loss a few years back. The problem is that I’m developing feelings for him and think he is too. I wonder if I should bring the subject up or distance myself from him for a bit because I do feel guilty. I also worry what people will think of me dating so soon and of all people, my husband’s brother. I’ve never been good at being alone. — Lonely Heart Dear Lonely That’s a lot of guilt you’re carrying for no real reason. Step one — Forgive yourself. Step two — Forget about what people will think. What is important is what you think. You need a therapy weekend. Check yourself into Congress Hall and get a massage. Then, treat yourself to a cocktail in the Brown Room and dinner at the Blue Pig. Use this time to think about what happened and take it all in. There is nothing wrong with developing a feeling for your brother-in-law but beware of your motivations. Do you like your brother-in-law for who he is or the memory he evokes of your late husband? When you answer that question, everything will fall into place. November 26, 2020 EXIT ZERO Page 51
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