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The Man God Has For You by Stephan Labossiere

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to find a date? No! You’re not doing any of that, so don’t give

me this “looks fade” stuff. The issue is still impactful to your

situation. It doesn’t go away or allow itself to be overlooked

with the belief you’ll still be able to have this happy, glorious,

wonderful relationship, regardless of its absence. You can’t be

in denial about that. You can’t run away from that truth. You

have to be honest with yourself about what you can handle and

not try to ignore it simply to appease other people wanting you

in a relationship. Or because you feel your clock is ticking,

you rush and get with a man who’s mediocre or “safe” because

you don’t believe you have time to wait for the “right” guy.

Or …

You don’t trust being with someone you’re overly attracted

to, or the guy you consider “too good looking.” I can’t tell you

how many women I come across who fear being with a really

good looking guy.

For just as many women who love being with a man other

women desire, there’s just as many who fear it. It’s clear there

is a deeper issue that needs to be addressed and not simply

think the solution is, “let me get with a guy who just doesn’t

look that good.”

It’s OK if the guy doesn’t fit the profile you would’ve

desired if you made your own list; however, if you are not

genuinely attracted to him, you should not move forward, and

know this is not who God sent you. He wants your relationship

to glorify Him. How does this happen if there’s a lack of

affection, respect, effort, and desire?

This doesn’t reflect well upon God.

It makes people believe what He’s brought together look

bad. No one will want any of it, especially if you claim God

had His hand on it.Trust and believe,every relationship that

consists of two people who’ve gone to God, talked to Him and

made sure that they were supposed to be together, is to glorify

Him, and be an example of the greatness God can provide.

Yes, it may come in an unexpected package, not fit the

dynamic, or the qualifications other people think you should

shoot for; however, what will speak loudest is your joy,

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