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to find a date? No! You’re not doing any of that, so don’t give
me this “looks fade” stuff. The issue is still impactful to your
situation. It doesn’t go away or allow itself to be overlooked
with the belief you’ll still be able to have this happy, glorious,
wonderful relationship, regardless of its absence. You can’t be
in denial about that. You can’t run away from that truth. You
have to be honest with yourself about what you can handle and
not try to ignore it simply to appease other people wanting you
in a relationship. Or because you feel your clock is ticking,
you rush and get with a man who’s mediocre or “safe” because
you don’t believe you have time to wait for the “right” guy.
Or …
You don’t trust being with someone you’re overly attracted
to, or the guy you consider “too good looking.” I can’t tell you
how many women I come across who fear being with a really
good looking guy.
For just as many women who love being with a man other
women desire, there’s just as many who fear it. It’s clear there
is a deeper issue that needs to be addressed and not simply
think the solution is, “let me get with a guy who just doesn’t
look that good.”
It’s OK if the guy doesn’t fit the profile you would’ve
desired if you made your own list; however, if you are not
genuinely attracted to him, you should not move forward, and
know this is not who God sent you. He wants your relationship
to glorify Him. How does this happen if there’s a lack of
affection, respect, effort, and desire?
This doesn’t reflect well upon God.
It makes people believe what He’s brought together look
bad. No one will want any of it, especially if you claim God
had His hand on it.Trust and believe,every relationship that
consists of two people who’ve gone to God, talked to Him and
made sure that they were supposed to be together, is to glorify
Him, and be an example of the greatness God can provide.
Yes, it may come in an unexpected package, not fit the
dynamic, or the qualifications other people think you should
shoot for; however, what will speak loudest is your joy,