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happiness, positive energy, and desire for your partner. That
should be there and attraction is a big part of it.
While attraction is important at the beginning stages of a
relationship, it is even more important once you’re there.
Understand that if you love your partner, if you care about
them, you will want to do things to feed, maintain, and nurture
the attraction. You cannot get into the mindset of they should
just accept me for me, love me anyway—no. If you love them,
you should want to look good for them. This goes for men and
women. Any romantic relationship, regardless of what it is, if
you’re trying to be together in the long run, then you want to
embrace that.
That’s a future note, put a pin in it for when the time
comes.
For now, remember that you will be attracted to the man
God has for you. If that doesn’t exist, don’t think you are
expected to move forward. Always remember to pray and ask
God. Make sure this is the man that He wants you to move
forward with, so that you can go forth in peace and not with an
unsettled feeling of getting less than what you desire, or what
makes you happy. That’s not what God wants for your life or
for your relationship.