The Man God Has For You by Stephan Labossiere

They need a distraction because they don’t really like each
other in that way.
They’re caught up in the surface hype, the fantasy, the
image of what they want things to be and what they want to
believe they are; however, they’re not dealing with reality.
Don’t set yourself up like that.
You have to make time to sit, talk and vibe together. You
don’t have to do it every week or every day, but if you can’t
then I’m sorry to tell you, it’s going to be a problem. It might
get you through for the moment and allow you to tolerate a
situation for the sake of having a relationship; but the fact
remains, you’re setting yourself up for disaster.
People who have genuine connections don’t struggle with
this. They can meet and speak for hours and it’s nothing to
them.
Of course, some of you may be thinking, I spoke to this
guy on the phone for hours and it still didn’t work out. Using
the phone as a measuring stick can be risky because you don’t
know what distractions are on their end, or what they’re using
to help move things along. It may be easy to mask the
connection in the first couple of conversations; however, at
some point, you’re forced to go in depth if you intend to keep
the conversation going, otherwise, it’s just small talk.
When you go more in depth, it begins to draw out the
information. You begin to see if you two truly connect, share
the same values, and want the same things in life. This is how
you know if there’s genuine a connection. Don’t ignore this.
You can’t overlook these conversations and expect to gain a
true depiction and understanding of who you’re dealing with,
and if they’re truly best for you.
Trust Your Intuition
Any of you who follow me on social media, have read God
Where Is My Boaz, or any of my work, know I’m big on
intuition. Your intuition is a gift, a blessing. It’s rare for a
woman’s intuition to be wrong, and most times I want to say