The Man God Has For You by Stephan Labossiere

They were content with hype and surface benefits of the
relationship, but take that away and there isn’t much else
happening.
Unfortunately, the relationship eventually failed and never
made it to marriage. He was not the man
God had for her. The proof was in their lack of a genuine
connection. Without it, a relationship will not have long term
success and you can be assured this is not the man for you.
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You’ll meet a lot of men who will catch your eye, and
many you’ll talk to and like. There may even be instances
where you believe you love this man, and that may be true;
however, you won’t experience a deep and genuine connection
with every single one.
Such a connection is rare to experience more than once in a
lifetime; although, there are exceptions to the rule.
Having a genuine connection with someone is a special
experience. It’s like two spirits recognizing their counterpart.
This doesn’t happen with most people you meet, which is why
a special connection is a strong indicator, and a necessary
foundation to recognize that this is the man God has for you.
Connection vs Chemistry
Now don’t confuse connection with chemistry.
When I speak to people they’ll claim to have a “great
connection.” I’ll ask what they mean by this, then they follow
up with getting along, liking the same things, or sharing
common interests and passions. All of these which are great;
however, it doesn’t mean there’s a deep and genuine
connection. Most times, it’s just part of the chemistry between
two people.
To give more clarity, chemistry accounts for the ability to
get along with each other. It’s two people happily coexisting
with one another. Chemistry is the foundation of a connection,
it’s sets the tone for people to dive deeper, although this may
not always happen. When there’s a deep and genuine