The Man God Has For You by Stephan Labossiere

actions speak louder than words, in this case, you can get
confused. Oftentimes, his actions may say he wants to be in
your life, or wants you as his girl, but his words say no.
The actions and words must be aligned.
When the actions and words don’t line up, there’s a
problem. A lie is being told somewhere, or an issue is not
being addressed. One way or another, it needs to be
investigated and should not be ignored. When he says you’re
not his girl, he doesn’t see you as his girlfriend, doesn’t want a
girlfriend then does the opposite the minute you assume he’s
supposed to be with you, he’ll come back and say, I told you I
didn’t want a girlfriend.
An inconsistent action is a consistent answer.
The answer is, he’s not serious. He’s not ready to be what
you need because if he was, then the consistency would be
clear. He’d put in the effort, ensure his words and actions lined
up, and everything would make sense. All this confusion he
creates is because he’s either playing a game or there’s an
issue he hasn’t addressed. Either way, it’s something you
should not entertain.
It’s even more important for you to address the issue first
because it can easily be a matter of miscommunication or
misunderstanding. In the same instance, I’m aware that when
you try to confront the issue he may dance around it, flip the
script to make it about you, what you didn’t do, or what you
did wrong. Make claims that you’re questioning and
pressuring him, which backs you into a corner and is
ultimately a distraction from the fact he STILL didn’t answer
your question. He gave you no clarity; the issue is still an
unsolved mystery.
This all leads to the same conclusion ⎯ he’s not serious. He
isn’t ready to be in a real genuine relationship and there’s no
need to entertain it any further.
The man God has for you is looking for a helpmate, not a
playmate. He’s not trying to play games with you. The man
who is “God-approved” wants to work with you. He’s built
himself up to this point and now he wants to build greater