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it’s never wrong; however, to be fair, I’ll say it’s rarely ever
wrong.
It’s a matter of being willing to listen because you know
when he’s not it. You know when the connection isn’t there
and you know when something deeper is missing. It may scare
you, or you may try to rationalize why it’s not there. There are
various reasons why you choose to ignore your intuition;
however, it’s not that you don’t know, you simply struggle to
embrace it. Your intuition is there for a reason, it’s a blessing,
and you have to refrain from the continuous pattern of
ignoring it because it’s dangerous.
Think about it, when is your intuition wrong for you? Why
ignore what you felt on the first date, or the first week talking
to the guy? You know he’s not it and you spend the next few
weeks, months, or years being with someone, then see it end.
And a lot of times, you see it end the same way your intuition
told you.
There’s no point in doing that or dragging things along.
You don’t need to “give things a chance,” it’s not
necessary. When you give the unnecessary a chance you waste
time. When you recognize you don’t belong there and you
continue, you waste time. The risk of further damage occurs,
which keeps you farther off the path God wants you to follow.
This doesn’t mean you can’t still get your blessings, or get
back on the right track, but it does delay the process.
And we’ve all done it, we’re human.
We can pray, hear it and sometimes still move forward
against what God has told us—it happens.
However, embracing your intuition will help you break
that pattern. You have to be willing to listen.
No one has to tell you that the connection isn’t there with a
guy because you know. No one has to tell you that it is there.
You know it, you feel it. But are you willing to be honest with
yourself and embrace it?
Bottom line, you cannot and should not ignore the lack of a
connection. In the end, it is one of the necessary steps in