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By: Rana Goodman / On My Soapbox<br />

Readers who have attended our previous<br />

guardianship seminars may recall that<br />

we outlined the pitfalls of being placed in<br />

guardianship and what can (and often does happen) to your property<br />

and savings.<br />

Because of recent changes in<br />

the Family Court system, we’ve<br />

added options for you to consider<br />

that would enable you to remain<br />

in your home until YOU decide<br />

that guardianship is really<br />

needed and/or wanted by you.<br />

The Vegas Voice lobbied the<br />

Nevada Legislature to pass a<br />

law that gave you the right to<br />

nominate your own guardian.<br />

Should the need arise, your<br />

nomination would always take<br />

precedence over any private or<br />

public guardian a court might<br />

appoint.<br />

For this protection, you need<br />

12<br />

Guardianship Seminar Update<br />

January 2024<br />

Rana Goodman signs the first<br />

Guardianship Nomination form. With her<br />

is Publisher Dan, President Ray and then<br />

Senator Becky Harris.<br />

to file a guardianship nomination form with the Nevada<br />

Secretary of State. We will provide the form at our workshops (see next<br />

page) There is no charge for the form or for filing it.<br />

Why the form? We have recently uncovered cases where a family<br />

member (other than the person’s choice) convinced the court that their<br />

family member is better suited to<br />

care for them - including their<br />

assets.<br />

One example - we have been<br />

communicating with a former<br />

Las Vegas resident, a woman<br />

who now resides with one of her<br />

daughters living in the mid-west.<br />

Her other two daughters live in<br />

our Valley.<br />

The other daughters filed suit<br />

to become the mother’s guardian<br />

claiming that the daughter<br />

she lives with is not caring for<br />

her adequately. The mother<br />

adamantly denied that was true.<br />

Thousands of dollars have<br />

already been spent (starting<br />

with those attorney fees) from<br />

Mom’s estate, and hearings are<br />

still going back and forth while they fight it out. Had mom filed the<br />

guardianship nomination form, by law, that would have been the end<br />

of the story.<br />

*On another topic, I’d like to share the steps I took when caring for<br />

my father and then my mother when it became necessary. The learning<br />

period was in taking care of dad first. He never made things easy bless<br />

him, but my daughters and I were there as often as needed.<br />

The first step was to have my mother hire a caregiver five days a<br />

week to come to their home and do whatever was needed for him. On<br />

weekends my girls and I took over.<br />

When my dad passed away, I sold their home and my mother and<br />

I moved into a home together in Anthem. Again, remembering how<br />

draining it was with dad, mom agreed to have the same caregiver to<br />

assist her. The weekends were my job.<br />

Another idea to consider: About 15 years ago, I took out a Long-Term<br />

Care insurance policy. At that time the rate was $169 a month and it<br />

has never changed. The policy provides for a caregiver to be sent to my<br />

home several times a week and other benefits.<br />

If a caregiver is not an option, you might consider an assisted living<br />

facility where meals are provided and the monthly fee includes the<br />

normal expenses you would have had you stayed in your home. The<br />

biggest difference is that these choices are yours, not those of a stranger<br />

assigned to you by a court.<br />

We will talk about these choices at the seminar, but we hope these<br />

ideas may give you “food for thought” in the meantime. Make a note<br />

of any questions you may have, as we always have Q&A at the end of<br />

the seminar.

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