Social Work with People Practicing Same-Sex ... - ILGA Europe
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Sometimes the circumstances may take a dramatic turn — the family would not want<br />
to accept a gay son. However, such response only aggravates the feeling of guilt and<br />
estrangement. Further formation of the sexual identity depends on how the close ones<br />
respond to the news that this person is bi- or homosexual. If the reaction turns out to<br />
be generally negative, the person becomes more firmly convinced that it is dangerous<br />
to confide in people of heterosexual orientation, while to count on them would be<br />
mindless. If the reaction would appear to be generally positive and friendly, the<br />
individual moves on to the next phase (Isay, 1996; Johnson, 1996).<br />
Phase 6 — synthesis. At the final phase of the formation of homosexual identity,<br />
an individual no more divides people into “us“ (bi- and homosexuals) and “others“<br />
(heterosexuals). The individual does not accept other people anymore on the basis of<br />
their sexual orientation. Not all heterosexuals appear to be “bad“, and all people <strong>with</strong> a<br />
homosexual orientation are perceived positively. Aggression, characteristic of the fifth<br />
phase decreases and the homosexual traits in one's identity fuse <strong>with</strong> other aspects of<br />
self-perception. Now the process of sexual identity formation is complete.<br />
It does not matter, if you love<br />
men, women, or both. It matters<br />
whether you are able to love and<br />
bring someone happiness and joy.<br />
Anita Naik, British writer,<br />
journalist, psychologist<br />
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