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Abantu bathi, “Kungani ubukeka njengomfana kodwa ube uy<strong>in</strong>tombazane.<br />
UNkulunkulu akadalanga abemame ukuthi bathandane kanye nabesimame<br />
kowa wadala u-Adamu noEva.” Abesilisa abaphuzayo emgwaqeni bahlala<br />
besho kanjena. Ngiyaqhubeka nokuzihambela ng<strong>in</strong>gasho lutho. 3<br />
UNonyameko, onem<strong>in</strong>yaka engu-28, uhlala njalo etshelwa ukuthi akahambisani nosiko.<br />
Abanye abantu bathi, “Akulona usiko lwethu ukuba uba njena. Ufanele ukuba<br />
ube namadoda. Kulem<strong>in</strong>yaka kungani ungenabo abantwana? Kungani<br />
ungathandani kanye nenye <strong>in</strong>doda?” 4<br />
Ongq<strong>in</strong>gili abangabesilisa ‘abesilisa abangongq<strong>in</strong>gili’ kanye nabesilisa abazikamela<br />
eyabo im<strong>in</strong>gcele bahlale bebhekene nokuhlukunywezwa okuq<strong>in</strong>isa ukusabwa<br />
kokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba and kongq<strong>in</strong>gili. Ukuzikhombisa ngokumizimba omkhulu<br />
kusho ukuthi basheshe babonakale ukuthi bangongq<strong>in</strong>gili abaziwa ngokuthi<br />
“ngongq<strong>in</strong>gili” kanye nokuba khona kwabo emphakath<strong>in</strong>i kwenza ukuba bagconwe bese<br />
bayahlukunyezwa.<br />
U -Lee, onem<strong>in</strong>yaka engu-21 ubudala, uthanda ukubukeka njengomfana futhi uhlale<br />
ebhekana ehlukunyezwa ngenkulumo kanye nokwesatshiswa cishe zonke iz<strong>in</strong>suku<br />
kubantu angabazi kanye nakubantu abajwayele ngokufanayo.<br />
Stabane [kusho umuntu onezitho zomzimba ezimbili ezahlukene zokuzala;<br />
igama elicwas abantu abathanda abantu abafana nabo] igama lakhe<br />
engethiwa lona. Zonke iz<strong>in</strong>suku ngibizwa ngeganyana…. Bathi, “Iphi <strong>in</strong>yoka,<br />
iphi <strong>in</strong>yoka? 5 Uma uthatha <strong>in</strong>tombi yami, Ngizokwenza lokho okwenza<br />
kubo”.… Uma ngihamba nentombi yami, abesilisa bathi kuye, “Asikwanelisi<br />
y<strong>in</strong>i? Kungani ufuna ukuthola im<strong>in</strong>we nje? Kungani uhambe nongq<strong>in</strong>gili?” 6<br />
UNosizwe, onem<strong>in</strong>yaka engu-25, ubudala wadlwengulwa ngabesilisa abane ababexakekile<br />
futhi bathuku<strong>the</strong>liswa umzimba kaNosizwe obukeka ungowesilisa. Ukubukeka kwaNosizwe<br />
kusho futhi <strong>in</strong>dlela abukeka ngayo futhi kusho ukuhlukunyezwa ngokwenkulumo.<br />
3 Ingxoxo phakathi kwe-<strong>Human</strong> <strong>Rights</strong> <strong>Watch</strong> <strong>in</strong>terview noNaledi (akulona igama langempela),<br />
e-Katlehong, ngoJuni 14, 2010.<br />
4 Ingxoxo phakathi kwe-<strong>Human</strong> <strong>Rights</strong> <strong>Watch</strong> noNonyameko (akulona igama lakhe lempela), eKhayelitsha, ngoJuni 21, 2010.<br />
5 Abantu aban<strong>in</strong>gi okwaxoxwa nabo bakhuluma ngenkoleloze eyokuthi ongq<strong>in</strong>gili abangama-lesbian “banenyoka”<br />
6 Ingxoxo phakathi kwe-<strong>Human</strong> <strong>Rights</strong> <strong>Watch</strong> no-Lee (akulona igama lakhe lempela), eLusikisiki, ngoJulayi 2, 2010.<br />
“SIZOKUKHOMBISA UKUTHI UNGOWEMAME” 12
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