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Babekade bebonile ukuthi siyathandana base bethi kuye, “Ubukeka<br />

uqondile.” Bazama ukumgwaza kodwa <strong>in</strong>sizwa eyayiseduzane yamsiza<br />

yamphephisa. Wabe esehlukana name ukuze aphephe. Wabe esethi<br />

usebuyela ekujoleni nez<strong>in</strong>sizwa. 44<br />

Ukwesaba, UkuL<strong>in</strong>yazwa, kanye NokuHlala UPhephile<br />

Ongq<strong>in</strong>gili ‘lesbians’kanye nabantu besilisa abazikamela eyabo im<strong>in</strong>gcele ngokobulili<br />

bahlala njalo bethukile ukuba bangakhathazwa kanye nokuhlukunyezwa komzimba kanye<br />

nangokocansi. Lolu uvalo lugcwele yonke <strong>in</strong>dawo ngendlela yokuthi nalabo esebe<br />

bahlukunyezwa abakhulumi ngakho ngaphandle kokuthi babuzwe ngqo ngakho. Isibonelo,<br />

uNkosazana, onem<strong>in</strong>yaka engu-25 ubudala, owadlwengulwa ngonyaka ka-2009 futhi<br />

manje ongungq<strong>in</strong>gili emphakath<strong>in</strong>i, ukhuluma ngokukhathazwa kwakhe okubukeka ngathi<br />

“kujwayelekile.” 45 Ngaphandle kwez<strong>in</strong>ye izigameko, bonke abantu kwakhulunywa nabo<br />

bachaza ngokuhlukunyezwa ngokwecansi njengesisusa sokwesaba kwabo.<br />

Ongq<strong>in</strong>gili aban<strong>in</strong>gi, abantu besiliosa abazikamela eyabo im<strong>in</strong>gcele ngokobulili, kanye<br />

nabantu abangahambisana nom<strong>the</strong>tho wobulili okwakhulunywa nabo bathi kukho konke<br />

abangakwenza abakwazi ukungazivikeli ukuba badlwengulwe. uNombeko, onem<strong>in</strong>yaka<br />

engu-18 ubudala othandana newesilisa ongungq<strong>in</strong>gili, wathi:<br />

Ngiyadlwengula ngoba ng<strong>in</strong>gq<strong>in</strong>gili ‘lesbian’. Intombi yami ihlala yodwa.<br />

Wonke umuntu uyakwazi lokhu. Ngiq<strong>in</strong>isekile, kukhona abakuhlelayo.<br />

Wukuthi ilanga aIikafiki nje. Angifuni abesilisa bazi emphakath<strong>in</strong>i wami bazi<br />

uma [ngisekhaya kubo ntombi yami]. Bayofika uma ngikhona.<br />

Bayosidlwengula sobabili. 46<br />

USibonakaliso, onem<strong>in</strong>yaka engu-25 ubudala, naye, ubonakala sengathi usekwamukele<br />

ems to have ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi bangamdlwengulwa ngenxa yendlela azikamele<br />

ngayo umngcele ngokobulili, uyazama ukwehlisa noma ezama ukunciphisa iz<strong>in</strong>ga<br />

lokuzithola kulokhu ngokufihla ubuhlobo anabo nentombi yakhe.<br />

Ngel<strong>in</strong>ye ilanga [ukwendlwengula] kungenzeka kimi. Ngiyakwazi Iokhu.<br />

Ng<strong>in</strong>entombi [kodwa] ngitshela abantu ukuthi ungumngani wami nje.<br />

44 Ingxoxo ye-<strong>Human</strong> <strong>Rights</strong> <strong>Watch</strong> noMasego (akulona igama langempela), e-Nelspruit, Julayi 11, 2010.<br />

45 Ingxoxo phakathi kwe-<strong>Human</strong> <strong>Rights</strong> <strong>Watch</strong> noNkosazana (akulona igama langempela), ePietermaritzburg, ngo-Agasti 4, 2010.<br />

46 Ingxoxo ye-<strong>Human</strong> <strong>Rights</strong> <strong>Watch</strong> noNombeko (akulona igama langempela), eKhayelitsha, ngoJuni 21, 2010.<br />

“SIZOKUKHOMBISA UKUTHI UNGOWEMAME” 32

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