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The Drama of the Gifted Child (The Search for the True Self)

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A Social Aspect <strong>of</strong> Depression<br />

One might ask whe<strong>the</strong>r adaptation must necessarily lead<br />

to depression. Is it not possible, and are <strong>the</strong>re not examples,<br />

that emotionally con<strong>for</strong>ming individuals may live quite<br />

happily? <strong>The</strong>re are indeed such examples, and above all<br />

<strong>the</strong>re were more in <strong>the</strong> past, <strong>for</strong> depression is a disease <strong>of</strong><br />

our time. Within a culture that was shielded from o<strong>the</strong>r<br />

value systems, such as that <strong>of</strong> orthodox Jewry in <strong>the</strong> ghetto,<br />

or <strong>of</strong> Negro families in <strong>the</strong> Sou<strong>the</strong>rn states a hundred years<br />

ago, an adapted individual was not autonomous and did<br />

not have his own individual sense <strong>of</strong> identity (in our sense)<br />

that could have given him support; but he did feel supported<br />

by <strong>the</strong> group. <strong>The</strong> sense <strong>of</strong> being a "devout Jew"<br />

or a "loyal slave" gave individuals a measure <strong>of</strong> security in<br />

this world. Of course, <strong>the</strong>re were some exceptions, people<br />

<strong>for</strong> whom that was not sufficient and who were strong<br />

enough to break away. Today it is hardly possible <strong>for</strong> any<br />

group to remain so isolated from o<strong>the</strong>rs who have different<br />

values. <strong>The</strong>re<strong>for</strong>e it is necessary today <strong>for</strong> <strong>the</strong> individual<br />

to find his support within himself, if he is not to<br />

become <strong>the</strong> victim <strong>of</strong> various interests and ideologies. This<br />

strength within himself—through access to his own real<br />

needs and feelings and <strong>the</strong> possibility <strong>of</strong> expressing <strong>the</strong>m—<br />

thus becomes crucially important <strong>for</strong> him on <strong>the</strong> one hand,<br />

and on <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r is made enormously more difficult through<br />

living in contact with various different value systems.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se factors can probably explain <strong>the</strong> rapid increase <strong>of</strong><br />

depression in our time and also <strong>the</strong> general fascination with<br />

various groups.<br />

Within <strong>the</strong> partially adapted child <strong>the</strong>re are latent powers<br />

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