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Figure 3: Coping model<br />

Community Support in coping<br />

Family Support in coping<br />

Individual coping<br />

CAUSES<br />

• Ignored by husband<br />

• Victim of bomb explosion<br />

• Polygamy<br />

• Daughter trafficked to India<br />

• Married unwillingly<br />

• Work load increased<br />

• Physically disable<br />

• Mistreated by family member<br />

Friends suggested not to worry<br />

Supported by organization to start small business<br />

Supported in household chores<br />

Tried to spend longer time with the affected<br />

Organization advising husbands on women’s issue<br />

Provided loan to solve the problem<br />

Supported by parents (economically)<br />

Problem was understood by children<br />

Supported in household work<br />

Advised not to worry<br />

Spent more time with them than earlier<br />

Thinking about family members and children<br />

Realized that it did not happened to me only<br />

Tried to hide the problem<br />

Shared with close friends<br />

Shared with family members<br />

Visited different places<br />

Kept busy and played with children<br />

Went to parents home Maiti<br />

Fasting<br />

Compromised the situation<br />

Left home<br />

Took alcohol to forget the problem<br />

Did not allow children to go out from home<br />

Cried a lot, did not eat<br />

Beaten and scolded to children<br />

Beaten by in-laws<br />

Husband did not talk to wife<br />

Suspected to be involved in sexual relationship with others<br />

Forced to give the birth of baby<br />

Mistreated by sister-in-law<br />

Suspected of women having relationship if they talked with<br />

other men<br />

Blamed as a kidnapper<br />

Men wanted to get sexual advantage from the women who was<br />

living single or husband out of home<br />

Culturally supported<br />

Changed religion<br />

Harmful Individual practices<br />

Family difficulties in coping<br />

Community Difficulties in coping<br />

Went to traditional healerdhami<br />

Thought of suicide<br />

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Sources: 8 Case Studies and their pathway in coping<br />

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Psychosocial Issues of<br />

Women affected by conflict

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