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Bedouin Tribes of the Euphrates Vol 2 - The Search For Mecca

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2 28 Bedotiin <strong>Tribes</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Euphrates</strong>, [ch. xxvi.<br />

between rival wives.<br />

In such cases it is not unusual<br />

to see a woman leave her husband for <strong>the</strong> reason that<br />

she cannot agree with <strong>the</strong> elder wife, for <strong>the</strong> first<br />

married generally retains her position as mistress <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> household, and <strong>of</strong>ten abuses it. It is, however,<br />

remarkable how little jealousy is generally shown,<br />

even where several wives have to live toge<strong>the</strong>r. To<br />

European ideas all<br />

this is <strong>of</strong> course ver}^ distasteful,<br />

but custom sanctions <strong>the</strong>ir position to Ai^ab women,<br />

and <strong>the</strong>re is nothing in <strong>the</strong> least degrading to <strong>the</strong>m<br />

in <strong>the</strong> fact that <strong>the</strong>y are not alone in <strong>the</strong> tent;<br />

while <strong>the</strong>ir quarrels seem to have no deeper foundation<br />

than those which divide <strong>the</strong> members <strong>of</strong> an<br />

ordinary Enghsh household.<br />

Women, in <strong>the</strong> desert, have <strong>the</strong>ir rights, which<br />

are respected ;<br />

and <strong>the</strong>y do not complain that <strong>the</strong>y<br />

are ill-treated. It has not yet occurred to <strong>the</strong>m<br />

that <strong>the</strong>y should be placed on an equal footing with<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir husbands or <strong>the</strong>ir bro<strong>the</strong>rs. <strong>The</strong>y are hardworked<br />

and happy.

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