Fiqh of Love: Marriage in Islam Instructor: Sh ... - Qabeelat Wasat

very clear to say that thigh is part of Awrah, part of thigh close to knee is allowedto show but higher thigh is not permissible to show.• Dhikr of Allah• Free-Mixing & Khalwa• Punishmento In Duniya and in Akhirah• Fasting• Guarding the senseso Ibn Qayyim said, “You just burned your heart for nothing, you are seeingsomething you cannot touch or have.” – don’t look and guard yourself from thatwhich is Haram.o Invent yourself a thing to stay away from Haram, a brother created a stickerreminder of “lower your gaze” and helped him lower his gazeo Create your tools to avoid the Haram You cannot believe it is part of the Shariah what you have created You cannot change Islamic rules because of it i.e. not going to the masjidbecause cannot stop looking at women Cannot make anything compulsory – if I do this I will make istaghfarnumber of time You cannot make it Shariah to physically harm yourself You can not invent an act of worship• Good companionsTo quit any type of addiction needs a lot of help and change of belief system – reprogrammingyour brain basically, this could be done on your own or by the help of a specialist.Indecent acts sometimes – especially in relationships – you need to sit back and look into thesituation clearly.Sports will help you a lot to clear your mind, riding the bike, go boxing, treadmill etc. It willhelp you a lot to protect yourself from doing indecent acts.Ruling for masturbation in IslamThere are 3 positions1. Most popular position is that it is Haram and not permissible in Islam and they use theverse in the Qur'ana. The believers are those who protect their private parts except from their wivesand slaves… anyone who does not do this is from transgressors.