Fiqh of Love: Marriage in Islam Instructor: Sh ... - Qabeelat Wasat

3. several incidents when women and men did not marry and the prophet did not orderthem to get marry.a. Example of um darda… did not marry anyone after Abu darda passed away asprophet a woman does not marry after her husband she will be reunited to herhusband… me and her will be racing to JannahAnother opinion:Marriage is permissible as exactly you eat… it is not recommended or wajibThe proof is Prophet Yahya was praised by Allah in Qur'anThis opinion is not strong at all, because it contradicts all the evidences that are in Qur'an andSunnah to get married.Marrying is not like eating or drinking because you don’t get reward for eating or drinking butProphet saw said that you get reward for having intimacy with your wife.Few maliki scholars say that marriage can take 5 rulesIt can be permissible, recommended, Haram, wajib1. it is wajib for someone who can fall into Haram… they are capable of getting married2. someone that can control her desire it is recommended to get married3. it might stop her from something that they want to accomplish and they have completecontrol over them… i.e. someone who wants to --- it is mubah for them4. if someone who will ruin someones life wait until everything gets fix5. it would be Haram…. During the waiting period, marrying a non Muslim or have adiseasea. a person who has HIV (not every person got hiv has done something wrong)Don’t under-estimate the importance of medical checkmake sure you protect yourself… (for genetic reasons as well)Is it allowed for a woman to take medicine to reduce sexual desire?It is allowed with a condition if does not causing major harm… I would not open that door…because women’s body is more sensitive