Fiqh of Love: Marriage in Islam Instructor: Sh ... - Qabeelat Wasat

Pictures online for everyone to look at – this is ridiculous… this is why shaykh Yasir Birjasstarted practimate online. He looked at all these areas and provided the avenue for those whoare looking for marriage.FlirtingIt is part of human nature to flirt; humans don’t live individually rather we live in society andbuild communities.Some people are so much into it that they do not notice it anymore. It is a very bad habit.Flirting with your wife is beautiful but it is dangerous when done with someone who is notmahram to you.Eye is number one flirting tool; stimulate the person the way you look at them. Guys and girlssome of them master it. People usually flirt because they think there is a competition and it isHaram, flirting is not allowed.Don’t come close to adultery – it is de-cafe affair. It is what leads you to forbidden way – theLook – a smile – make a move – acceptance – meet each other and fall into that which isHaram.People who flirt they are playing games, “The may-be game”Tone of voice – when speaking to the opposite genderFlirting can be a habit and how can you stop that?First know that it is not allowed and it is HaramSecond Allah forbade women to walk in ways that reveal their body or to attractmale/female’s attention. People who do flirt they will not lower their gazeThird, dress the way it is Sunnah to dress – dress modestly. Make sure you stare at others andkeep your limit and don’t be in mixing gathering if you cannot control yourself.Check your intention when you say a thing in front of a non-mahram. Check yourself and yourintention and it will help you get rid of this habit. Allah says don’t follow the footsteps ofShaitân because he takes you step by step to do Haram.Know your limits- don’t throw jokes, stare etc.