Fiqh of Love: Marriage in Islam Instructor: Sh ... - Qabeelat Wasat

RECAPWhat is Marriage?• Kingdom of faitho Man is the king: nisaa’ 10: arrijaalu qawwamoon ala nisaao Don’t have two kings, can’t have two queens.o Sometimes the leadership is assumed by women, especially lately because themen are leaving it.o Qawama is not dictatorship. Look back to the life of the prophet Salla AllahuAlayhi Wa Sallam. Consultation! a woman saved the Ummah by advising theprophet Salla Allahu Alayhi Wa Sallam: ummu salama during the solhalhudaybiyah.o 1 year man talks, 2 nd year woman talks, 3 rd year they both talk and neighborslisten.o• Remember the qualities you are looking for. Educating your child does not start at oneyear old… it starts at choosing his parent.• Best denaar spent, one you spend on your family.Recipe for Successful Marriage:o He has created you from you- so that you may find quality from them- She is a partof you. Remember that!!!o They are a garment for you as you are a garment for them. You can see what hersiblings cant.o Keep your residence/home beautiful and welcoming. Welcome home not with thekitchen apron but looking good?o Always talk favourably about each other's families and about own families.• A contract of mutual agreement between man and woman that allows them to enjoy eachother and build a family