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o Not facing the persono Fixing, messing your colour.o Blinking too mucho Sitting at the edge of the chairo Tapping, stomping with feet hands.o Shifting body weight from one leg to another.• The Engagement Ringo Became popular in the time of the Pharaohs- 15th century. Symbol of trust.they used to give ring when they trusted someone and they started giving their wives… andthen it came to be known in Europe – the king got married he gave ring to his wife and itbecame very popular after that.• Are we allowed to make use of an engagement ring to symbolize?o Yes it is allowed, nothing wrong. Gold rings for women only and not for man.• Can you give gifts during the Engagement period?o Yes, you can.• Cannot give; lingerie, jewellery, candles, bath products• You can give: Ilmrush Card, gift basket, Quran Cds, flowersPeople with OCD should have a low carb diet.How do you get to know that this is the one?1. One of the clear sign of having taqwa or good character, having righteous and goodfriends.o This is very important. People are similar to their friends.2. How does he/she spend her free time?o Ask and just enjoy the answer.oAsk someone who lives with the person what they do on the weekend.3. High standardso Look for someone with high goals in life.o Someone who will support your dreams and goals and not shut you down.4. Accomplishments and achievements in life.o Ask them about their accomplishments and achievements.o Ex: memorizing quran, joining al-huda and scoring high, graduating with high marks,revived community, fundraised etc.o Resume of marriage is based on accomplishments.5. Meet the parents.o This should not be delayed and done in the beginning. They are older and moreexperienced.6. Engagement period.
o Will help you to get to know the person.7. The contract period.o You can make the contract and move in later, giving you time to know the person.8. Consultation, praying istikharah9. Four seasons ruleo Fall, spring, summer, winter.o If you want to know someone make sure you know them in all different seasons -moods.o Time will allow you to see the person in different stages.10 Topics to discuss before Marriage1. Religion:What describes a religious person?What kind of shaykhs do you like?What do you think of Hijab?Where do you get your information from?Do you love to fast?What do you think of the beard?How do you view religious people? Are practicing Muslims?What school of thought do you believe in?2. Children:How fast do you want the children? Now or later on?How much do you love kids?Will the man help with the teaching of the kids, the upbringing?Would you put them in Madrassah instead of public School.How many kids do you want?3. Finances/Money Matters:Hesitance in speaking about finances is not a good signHow do you spend your money? Generous enough or a waster?How will you support me?What is your income source?How do you perceive the future regarding money?Do you have debts?4. Employment:How many hours a day you going to work? (How many hours will you spend with me ?How do you see yourself balancing between home and work?)What kind of work do you do?Career Goals?Career history-two many switches? Fired several times?For women- Do you want to work? Will you work after marriage?
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Page 6 and 7: Allah (SWT) informed us that marria
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