Fiqh of Love: Marriage in Islam Instructor: Sh ... - Qabeelat Wasat

oWhat if other women are in the room when you are looking at her without herknowledge (they aren't covered maybe)?You can't help it, but do not look at them. Ex. You are in the mall and music is on the system, you are HEARING itbut not LISTENING to it.Meeting Your Future SpouseThe Prophet (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam) said, " A man and woman should not be aloneunless it is in the presence of her mahram." (Bukhari and Muslim)• Meeting can be repeated if necessary.• Meeting in a public place without the mahram is not permissible unless it is by necessity orneed.• The ruling regarding private conversations via phone, Internet, texting, etc.o Can be harmful in case the breaking of an engagement- can be used against the person.• Keys to Magnetic Likability:o Smileo Breathe Breath in, take in a little more, count to four and then exhale, exhalesome more. Doesn’t work- count to six and then eighto Don't have a high carbohydrates meal. Won't make you calm. Eat things thatmake you feel calmo Be attentive to otherso Complement otherso Make yourself approachableo Always ask to helpo Never lieo Thank you, please, welcomeo Positive languageo Make frequent eye contact but do not stare.Dress cleaned• Body Language to Avoidoo Looking at clock-ooooooTouching face- sings of lyingHolding hands behind back or talking with hands together face in- powerTouching your suit, fidgeting- thinking only of yourselfStanding too closeLaying awayHands on hips, head to side- boredCrossing arms over- not receptive of other people