Fiqh of Love: Marriage in Islam Instructor: Sh ... - Qabeelat Wasat

“Bad statements are for bad people (or bad women for bad men) and bad people for badstatements (or bad men for bad women). Good statements are for good people (or goodwomen for good men) and good people for good statements (or good men for good women),such (good people) are innocent of (each and every) bad statement which they say, for them isForgiveness, and Rizqun Karîm (generous provision i.e. Paradise).” [24:26]Qualities:Generosity is very important; they are willing to forgive easily. Stingy person does not forgiveeasily he treat people exactly the same way he treats money.Person who is patient and not someone who gets angry very fastSomeone who speaks politely and sweet and don’t break heart. Someone who choose hiswords carefullyWise: someone who is wise and not ignorant, wisdom is very importantCompassion: look for a woman who is compassionate and not manlyA woman who has good smile - choose the person who have beautiful smile“If you have a tail; wag, if you don’t have a tail then smile” ☺• Child bearing• Virginityo Maliki mention that it apply to both men and women, it is better to marry avirgin man/woman over divorced men/women. It is about the firstlove/relationship.• Beautyo Beauty is not everythingo Don’t marry women only for their beautyo Leave the beauty to be decided by the persono Beauty is different from one person to another• Wealtho Make sure you have something to offero It is not wrong to look for someone who is financially stable• Family lineageo You want to know how the man or woman would raise their children