Fiqh of Love: Marriage in Islam Instructor: Sh ... - Qabeelat Wasat

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• Creating bonds between peopleooIt is a relationship between families, you cannot take the girl/guy without thefamily – keep that in mind ☺It is creating bond between different people from different placesBenefits of marriage:For Men:• Marriage encourages better relationships between parents and children, especiallyfather-child interactions• Married men earn 10-40 % more than similar unmarried men• Married men gain substantial physical health benefits• Married men have lower levels of testosterone which is associated with a reduction inaggressive and risky behaviors as well as promiscuity• Married men are less likely to have alcohol and drug addictions, to commit crime, andto be abusive.• Married men live longer• People who are married honor sexual relationship more than those who are not married• More cheating if not married, even talking about non-Muslim societies if people aremarried they are more committed to their wives or husbands.• Married couples are better when it comes to taking care of kids compared to when itcomes non-married coupleFor Women:• Married women without children have higher incomes and married mothers are lesslikely to live in poverty• For women marriage combats depression, provides particularly high psychologicalbenefits, and significantly lowers the risk of suicide• Marriage normally decreases the likelihood that a woman will be domestically abused.
Choosing theRight SpouseThe Prophet (SAW) said, “A woman is married for her religiosity, her wealth or her beauty. Sogo for the one who is religious, may your hands be filled with dust.” [Muslim]That is what people are looking for, so what are you really looking for?• What you want to achieve by getting married?• What are the qualities you are looking for in your future spouse?• Commonality: People like those people who are like themo Someone similar to youo Similarity breed comfort You will be more comfortable with someone who is similar to you It will lead to comfortable life Someone who share with lots of thingso Ask yourself what kind of quality do I have? So I match it!o Make sure you understand yourself very clearly, things you like love andmotivate youo Learn the qualities and values you have about life and you find most interestingo Look for someone who shares lot of areas on the qualities you haveThe Ultimate (Cardinal) RuleThe Prophet (SAW) said, “If someone whose religion and character you are pleased with comesto you to marry your daughter, and then marry her off to him.” [Tirmadhi]DON’T start by asking about religionKeep the religion to be the last thing to ask about, the Ulema were very smart when they saidthat. Why? Because someone was told that the person was known for their religion but theydon’t look good then they rejected him, it means they rejected the religion.First ask about the things you are interested in for example, looks, job, and interests and keepthe religion to be the last thing to ask.
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