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Discipline Equals Freedom Field Manual by Jocko Willink ( PDFDrive.com )

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DEATH<br />

But how does “good” apply to the worst of losses: the<br />

death of a loved one? It is easy to think that there<br />

is nothing “good” in death.<br />

But then I remember the people I have lost throughout<br />

my life: the memories of them, the experiences, the<br />

fun, their unique personalities, and everything they<br />

gave me. Not only in their life, but in their death.<br />

What their life taught me, and what their death<br />

taught me.<br />

The mark they have left on me.<br />

And I realized, there is good; even in death there is<br />

good.<br />

First of all, I was lucky to have had that person in<br />

my life; even if it was only for a short time—too<br />

short a time—at least I got that. Those precious<br />

moments, those unforgettable memories, at least I got<br />

those and got to experience those times—to know the<br />

beauty of their personality, their attitude, their<br />

outlook on the world. They were all unique, and I am<br />

thankful for the opportunity I had to interact with<br />

them.<br />

Now, <strong>com</strong>es death.<br />

Death is horrible and death is wretched and death is<br />

cruel. And: Death isn’t fair.<br />

And I don’t know why the best people seem to be taken<br />

from us first.<br />

Death is also inescapable. There is no way out. No<br />

one gets out alive.<br />

Death is part of life, like the contrast between the<br />

darkness and the light.

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