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Preliminary Parenting Plan The National Family Resiliency Center, Inc. (formerly The Children of Separation and Divorce Center, Inc.) staff developed a Preliminary Parenting Plan based on its childfocused approach to parental decision making. Parents learn about child development, the impact of divorce, and appropriate parenting to meet children’s needs at parent education classes. They are encouraged to think about the unique needs of each child in the family and develop separate parenting agreements for focus on each of the developmental considerations, discussed in Chapter 3, and in all parenting seminars, as it applies to a specific child. For example, the Preliminary Parenting Plan categorizes developmental needs related to safety and security as Health Needs, Day Care, Provisions for Physical and Psychological Safety, Discipline and Co-parent Communication. Parents can subscribe to an online program, www.familyconnex.org, which offers a step-by-step process to complete a comprehensive needs assessment and then a parenting plan. A manual is available as a resource for parents. Parents learn what specific parenting behaviors and responsibilities are needed to meet a child’s particular needs. After completion of the Preliminary Parenting Plan or the FamilyConnex© program, parents have greater awareness and understanding of their respective roles in meeting the developmental needs of a child as well as a sense of what gaps remain. Perhaps most importantly, parents learn through the process of attending parenting seminars and completing parenting programs like FamilyConnex that the many needs of children require both parents’ involvement, communication and, renegotiation. Risa Garon, LCSW-C, BCD, CFLE Executive Director National Family Resiliency Center, Inc. 173
PRELIMINARY PARENTING PLAN A. How will parents explain separation/divorce to the children? B. How will each parent support the unique personality and needs of each child? C. Children’s living arrangements: 1. When will children be with each parent? 2. Time with each parent Special time with parent Family time Flexibility in changing time based on child’s needs Plan for when parent is out of town or unavailable 3. Pick-up, Drop-off Transportation Location Rules for communication 4. Child’s contact with other parent when apart Calls Time with other parent Letters D. What arrangements will be made for: 1. Health Needs Making appointments Getting medication 174
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Introduction Child custody and visi
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EXPERT HELP Framing the Questions -
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RECURRING ISSUES a preference”; a
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RECURRING ISSUES Denying or Restric
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I. INTRODUCTION That children are a
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accountability if they have learned
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abuse induces some victims who migh
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framework offers negligible protect
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Changes in U.S. immigration laws an
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violence. 113 In their homes violen
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domestic violence,” and removed t
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From 2005 through 2008, the Project
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IV. Conclusion The important work o
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