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a relationship <strong>with</strong> an <strong>ROCD</strong> sufferer. The last to cover are<br />

things you should know and can expect during and after<br />

treatment.<br />

Trial by Error<br />

The first therapist you hire may not be the last. For example,<br />

everything may seem fine in the first few sessions, but<br />

later your partner expresses concern. These concerns may<br />

rise from problems <strong>with</strong> medication, treatment procedure,<br />

compatibility issues, or other things that can make one<br />

wonder if things are “right”.<br />

Success of therapy is largely dependent on the patient's<br />

confidence. If questions begin to surface about the quality<br />

of treatment your partner is receiving, it may be an indication<br />

that therapy is failing. This is especially the case if the<br />

sufferer feels like he or she is not being listened to. If he or<br />

she is open to receiving treatment, but the procedure or the<br />

professional doesn't feel right, it may be appropriate to find<br />

another therapist. Don't waste time and money on help that<br />

isn't working.<br />

Try not to confuse this <strong>with</strong> discomfort <strong>with</strong> therapy. It is<br />

common for sufferers to feel uncomfortable when receiving<br />

help. The therapist may be just fine, but the sufferer is resisting,<br />

whether purposefully or not. One should decide<br />

whether this is the case before passing judgment on the<br />

therapist.<br />

It gets worse before it gets better<br />

If your partner begins Cognitive Behavioral Therapy that<br />

includes ERP (Exposure and Response Prevention), he or<br />

she will intentionally expose themselves to things that<br />

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