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Chapter Four: Don't be a Victim People in relationships with ROCD sufferers are subject to more criticism and expectations of perfection than normal. This chapter will help partners understand and avoid dangers, and to create strategies for protecting themselves from becoming victims of the emotional chaos often found in Relationship Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. 66
Don't let it get you, too. If one chooses to remain in a relationship with a partner who has ROCD, he or she will need to develop healthy practices for avoiding the possibility of becoming a sufferer themselves. The previous chapter covered events and circumstances that may lead to mental illness. These apply to the stress one can experience in an ROCD relationship. This means that you will have to take extra care to guard yourself against developing of your own mental illness. Others in relationships with OCD sufferers may develop the same behaviors. Although this was previously referred to in child-parent relationships, this also applies to romantic ones. Humans are emotional creatures. Criticism from those you love is naturally taken more seriously than that from others. This is especially true in romantic relationships. It is not abnormal for people to experience feelings of self-doubt in response to criticizing statements made by partners. In ROCD, self-doubt can be a regular occurrence, due to abnormal frequency of criticism and often hearing that your partner does not love you. This may develop into bigger problems. Because Love Said So Love is an interesting thing. Though no one knows exactly what it is or how it works, we know that it can cause us to behave in ways in which we would avoid in other circumstances. Things we do for love are not always rational 67
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For Marty- May you find your freedo
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Chapter One: What is Relationship O
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form of Obsessive-Compulsive Disord
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ferer. This person is basing his or
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The person may imagine circumstance
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mental health professional and rece
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physical conditions. Some believe t
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haviors associated with ROCD, he or
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causes. If a therapist is not curre
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ors in diagnosis and treatment. Aft
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One can get insurance by applying d
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Obviously free or discounted servic
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First call says it all... almost. W
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When ROCD is diagnosed, it will lik
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Antidepressants Antidepressants are
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Sexual dysfunction SSRIs should not
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Parnate (tranylcipramine) Common si
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egarding long-term affects. New med
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ehavior. It is believed that throug
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Supportive Information Love isn't r
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personal experiences with it. The e
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lenges become less significant as o
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Missing Ingredients Some reports ha
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diagnosed, doctors usually prescrib
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If one believes that adrenal fatigu
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tive and physical response, as well
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Confusion Fertility problems Photos
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dreams or nightmares. Prolonged use
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THC actually drops the level of ser
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cludes calming agents to reduce men
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Chapter Ten: Overview and Surviving
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that it isn't just the relationship
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a relationship with an ROCD suffere
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experiences more anxiety, or become
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National Institute of Mental Health
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Modell, J.G., Mountz, J.M., Curtis,
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