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Strictness in parental upbringing is not exclusive to abuse<br />

cases. Perfection in any form can be inductive to OCD, such<br />

as in chores, childhood sports, school grades, beauty<br />

pageants, or other activities that involve performance. Children<br />

in this circumstance can lack healthy social development,<br />

and other crucial life skills, due to excessive preoccupation<br />

<strong>with</strong> these kinds of activities. The parent pushes excessively<br />

for perfection or success, and the child strives to<br />

please. The goal for the child is to make the parent happy,<br />

either out of fear or the quest for approval. This can lead to<br />

OCD by creating an expectation of perfection in all areas of<br />

life for the child.<br />

Under My Wing<br />

Overprotective parenting is common in OCD cases. It is<br />

considered to be a possible cause of the disorder, as well as<br />

having significance in other mental illnesses.<br />

An example of overprotective parenting is when a parent<br />

restricts the child from doing things that could put the child<br />

in danger. Beyond normal parenting practices, this refers to<br />

the refusal of activities such as riding a bicycle or playing at<br />

a park, due to paranoia. The parent has abnormal fears of<br />

catastrophe, such as child abduction. Normal occurrences<br />

such as falling and scraping a knee while playing is abnormally<br />

feared and risks avoided.<br />

Your Wish is My Command<br />

Overprotection also includes circumstances where the<br />

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