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curse my brand-new baby-blue one-piece suit because I had to unzip the jacket and let it<br />
collapse around my waist to get some relief from the heat generated by the beating sun.<br />
I was sure I looked like an oddly colored tulip with wilted petals. My white toque and<br />
white mitts soon became dotted with coee and hot chocolate because it took a day and<br />
a half of pacing at the foot of the mountain before I got the nerve to take the chair to<br />
the top.<br />
I’d spent some time in Canada, in Windsor, Ontario, in particular, because the<br />
drinking age was lower than Michigan’s and I was dating Scott, a man who drank a lot<br />
even before I married him. I remember for a while trying to keep up with him, but I just<br />
didn’t like the eects of all that alcohol on my body. Still, it was the hallmark of our<br />
courtship that everything Scott did and liked, I would nd myself doing and liking as<br />
well. He drove Fords, and so a Focus was my rst car. He liked Thai food, so I became a<br />
fan myself. Scott was an avid skier, so I became one too. But skiing was about the only<br />
thing he introduced me to that I actually liked and eventually became pretty good at.<br />
At rst we skied together, Scott never more in his element than when he was telling or<br />
showing me how to do something. But I was a willing partner, so wanting it to work, for<br />
us to bond and click, that I risked breaking my neck on moguls after only three days of<br />
lessons. I was a natural, something that pleased Scott at rst and then slowly began to<br />
bother him. Eventually, while I’d hit the slopes in the morning, Scott would stay back<br />
and keep a couch warm in front of the re and a brandy ready for when I returned.<br />
Skiing alone, I felt a sense of independence and the thrill that comes from courting<br />
adrenaline rushes. I loved going fast and the feel of my thigh muscles working hard in<br />
the cold. But this newfound hobby was short-lived. Once Scott saw that I was actually<br />
enjoying myself, and sometimes even drawing a bit of male attention my way, we<br />
stopped skiing altogether.<br />
Now, trudging through Whistler’s crowded main square in my new ski outt, I felt<br />
some bad déjà vu, but also some good. Before Scott got sicker, I had to admit some of<br />
our happiest days as a couple were spent on those weekend trips to the Upper<br />
Peninsula. Maybe this is what it felt like to begin forgiving Scott, to let go of my<br />
resentment towards him and his selsh decisions, the ones that had left me a widow at<br />
twenty-nine. I hoped so. I was done blaming him for my aloneness, done feeling sad<br />
about it. And on days like today, when the sun was bright and the snow was sparkling, I<br />
could even say I loved my life more because it was nally, completely my own. I looked<br />
up at the mountain. I would never take this kind of beauty for granted, even if I lived<br />
here and saw this every single day. It wasn’t just gratitude that ooded my heart at that<br />
moment, but unadulterated joy.<br />
“Here, let me take a picture of you in front of the mountain.”<br />
I was startled by the voice and the hand, which before I could protest was wrapping<br />
around my camera.<br />
“Whoa!” I said, pulling it away. It took me a couple of seconds to take in the young<br />
man with a dimple in his left cheek, and the shaggy brown hair peeking out from under<br />
his black toque. I detected a slight French accent.<br />
“I wasn’t trying to take it,” he said, his palms open to me in surrender. Then he smiled,